2006-12-17 16:50:57 · 29 answers · asked by up4anything 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Imagine this...
Rather than trying to control what a man looks at or think about. Become his partner and have conversation with him. Allow him to talk to you about different girls as he see them.
You will discover the most interesting thing ever:
a) he will feel comfortable talking to you about anything
b) he won't feel like he have to sneak a peek in
c) you get to learn your man's true taste and desire in a woman
d) you get to have dialouge with your man
Don't challenge him about what he's looking at. And please don't think that just because you have him, that he has stop thinking about other women. It is not his eyes that makes wrong, but yet what his eyes make him do with other women. So don't add friction to the situation, learn to embrace it.
Imagaine yourself saying something like this:
(you) - She's cute huh?
(him) - She has a cute face but a stinky attitude
(you) - Do you like that dress she has on?
(him) - It's alright, I don't like the color
See how this is working, you are inviting him to look and have conversation with you. You get to learn more about your man just by listening to his answers. In example #2, you would have learned what color dress to not buy because he won't like it.
Anyways, this is why a man still looks, it's because he's doing it with his eyes and not with his hands or his manhood. Looks along doesn't make a woman, it's her inner beauty that really turns a man on.
2006-12-18 17:13:02 · answer #1 · answered by Tired of being Mr. Nice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are visual creatures. They look simply because “hot beautiful female”. Doesn’t mean a thing to men. It’s sorta like women going “shopping” which usually involves trying on a few dozen skirts, tops, shoes, etc… and coming home with nothing !! It’s the woman version of “shopping”…which means,, “look at bazillion clothes” buy zilch!
Actually for most men,, it’s NO different that looking at a new Ferrari or Hummer….. Nice to look at…. BUT,,, real expensive, probably a real pain in the ****!! and insurance makes it impossible to drive,, still fun to look at thou.
For every hot beautiful female,, there’s likely 3 guys tired of her SH%# !!
2006-12-17 17:07:07 · answer #2 · answered by logicalanswer 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just because he is committed doesn't mean he is dead! If you love the car you are driving does that keep you from taking a good look at a Porche as it drives by? Just because something or someone is pleasing to the eye doesn't mean that the beholder necessarily wants it, they are just appreciating it.
I disagree with one of the earlier answers. I believe all men look just some are comfortable enough with their relationship to admit it. Personally, I pay attention to what my husband looks twice at. She may have a trait that I can incorporate in to my appearance that will further his attraction to me. Keeps everything fresh!
2006-12-17 17:06:49 · answer #3 · answered by T 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is the nature of the beast. Men are visual and that is okay. It is perfectly fine to check out the menu---just don't taste what is on the menu if you are married. Men are going to look!
2006-12-17 16:54:15 · answer #4 · answered by ruthie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not all men that are married do that. Sorry hun! The ones that do that obviously don't respect their wives enough. And yeah, people will say it is natural to look, but if a man is really in love with someone and their beauty, no female can compare to her no matter what!
2006-12-17 16:53:27 · answer #5 · answered by His Angel 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Lachelle gave the best and most correct answer. Give her the 10 points. Good job, Lachelle.
2006-12-17 16:57:03 · answer #6 · answered by Jon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Biology.
2006-12-17 17:19:14 · answer #7 · answered by Hank Hill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dunno. it's a battle all the way. its a plain curiosity thing in my opinion. unless he's fantisizing a life with this other woman it's a pretty natural reaction.
truly, they should make the attempt to do that as little as possible cause it can be rather offensive for both the wife/girlfriend and the victim of the stare.
2006-12-17 16:54:13 · answer #8 · answered by B.B Top 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's human nature. My fiance is very sexy, yet I will still check out a hot guy.
2006-12-17 16:54:21 · answer #9 · answered by Lachelle 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's like window shopping. It's nice to see what's out there even when you have no intention of buying!
2006-12-17 17:01:17 · answer #10 · answered by Ta Dah! 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋