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My dad is a heartless asshole with many problems. It takes a long time to explain, but I asked him if I could live with y mom and he said no. Despite all the things that are my numerouse reasons for not liking him, what is the age in NV that I can say I want to live with my mom? I am 13 now and my parents have been divorced (with good reason) for 8 years. I hate him, and I would appreciate any answers I get.

2006-12-17 16:44:24 · 4 answers · asked by politicaltnt 2 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

my mom knows i hate him, and would be very hapy if my sister and I lived with her. My dad is horrible, and I don't want to get into why. What I want to know is, without having to tell the judge what he does inorder to not live with him, when can I say i don't want to live with him and the judge respect that without going into many of my reasons.

2006-12-17 16:52:33 · update #1

my mom knows i hate him, and would be very hapy if my sister and I lived with her. My dad is horrible, and I don't want to get into why. What I want to know is, without having to tell the judge what he does inorder to not live with him, when can I say i don't want to live with him and the judge respect that without going into many of my reasons.

2006-12-17 16:52:47 · update #2

the third answer prompted me to say that my dad doesn't put up aeven n xmas tree He usually gives us a little money for xmas. When we are it his house for half of xmas day we have a bad christmas. Right now he is charging my 50 dollars as a punishment for catching me without my retainer in, and he is taking it from my xmas money so my sister with get more money than me which we rely on until our birthday. I have experianced horrible xmas days thanx to him. His side of the family is great but he is awful.

2006-12-17 17:00:44 · update #3

4 answers

Your question is difficult to answer. Your father probably has good reasons for refusing your request. However, since you are unhappy, call your mother and explain to her your reasons to live with your mom and not your dad. Don't fight with your father about it, but have your mom call him and explain the consequences. Maybe the two of them can come together on a friendly agreement on your behalf, for your sake. Don't do anything irrational, just keep moving forward and have a nice argument free Christmas. That is, act like the adult you are becoming.

2006-12-17 16:55:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Technically a 12 twelve months previous is seen able to identifying, except one or the two between the mother and dad replaced into got here upon legally undeserving to have the youngster of their custody, which does no longer seem the case. in case you have a cooperative ex companion, you will possibly be waiting to repair this undertaking without the presense of criminal representatives. in keeping with possibility the three of you may desire to pass out to lunch, and take a seat and communicate the undertaking. the youngster shouldn't sense forced to chosen one over the different and have had the determination made basically before the assembly. she or he would be able to of direction no longer be banned from one discern fullyyt and this could desire to be clean to all events in touch. in the adventure that your newborn says he desires to stay with you, your ex may well be prepared to settle for the childs determination and not convey courtroom concerns into it. even with the undeniable fact that, in case you do no longer have faith them to get legal experts in touch, then by utilising all potential you are able to desire to time table a listening to. If the youngster is youthful than 12 and requests to be on your care, that's considered except it has already been desperate you're uncapable of protecting her or him. As for shielding the different discern from practise a newborn, i comprehend from very own experiance that little ones seem proof against brainwashing whilst it incorporates their mum and dad. After a on an analogous time because it may carry out a little injury, yet on the instant young ones forget approximately approximately slander againts the two mum and dad and actually love them for each and each of the justifications they could desire to be enjoyed. young ones are quite reliable with no longer being biased, that's basically their nature.

2016-10-05 10:59:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

usually it's the age of 8 in most states... but I would call your mom and ask her to revisit the custody agreements with the court

2006-12-17 16:51:16 · answer #3 · answered by waiting4myredemption 4 · 0 0

PLEASE talk with your mom.........

2006-12-17 16:49:16 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1 0

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