i hade my baby a week ago is it wrong to have sex yet. but i still hurting alittle i dont want to have sex and it hurt bad all over again i cant ask doc i think he will be mad because he told me i cant for like 6 weeks but i think my husband getting alittle upset but what else can i do i really dont want to get preg again to she like 4 or so.
2006-12-17 16:02:33 · 23 answers · asked by lori7642 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
No dont have sex yet. Wait the 6 weeks and either give your hubby some head or jerk him off. He will get over it if he loves you.
2006-12-19 20:45:07 · answer #1 · answered by Brutally Honest 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Normally you can have sex so you had something that caused the doctor to tell you to wait 6 weeks. Try it after 4 weeks and see if its OK. Very important for the mental health of your baby, see the 2nd link on this links page to see the best way to raise infants or newborn babies according to Gloria Steinem and La Leche League. Your baby is in his 4th trimester.
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2006-12-17 16:27:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your doctor is right. 6 whole weeks. This is because you can get an infection and possibly cause tearing (whether you had a c-section or vag. birth). It will be uncomfortable and may cause bleeding. Your uterus is fragile right now and causing bleeding can lead to hemorrhaging or clotting. If clots form, you can get an embolism and you don't want to go to the ER with a hemorrhage because you did not follow directions (embarrassing). Just wait. There are other forms of pleasure you can give your husband.... Good luck to you.
2006-12-17 16:08:46 · answer #3 · answered by nurse_ren 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is feeling omitted on account that earlier than the child she had all of your concentration now she sees that the child takes up plenty of some time , so in her brain if I act like a child I gets extra concentration. What you must do is discover a particular time to be together with her . Read a ebook , watch a film , some thing so long as she has some time .. Let her realize that she is particular to be a Big Sister. Let her aid with the child and comprise her up to feasible.
2016-09-03 16:15:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is too soon to be having sex - you are still healing on the inside. Follow your doctors advice and wait the six weeks. You can consider having sex others way until actual vaginal pentration is allowed in six weeks. Take care of yourself first and your husband second.
2006-12-17 18:53:09 · answer #5 · answered by kimawah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you use protection you shouldnt get pregnant again, but be care..you can be VERY fertile right now.
If you had a c section..you must becare ful your incision doesnt get bumped, talk about OUCH!! (been there done that)
but you probably should listen to your doc and wait out the 6 weeks...rent a very good movie for your husband..and tell him to deal with it, you have too. right?? good luck!
2006-12-17 16:07:33 · answer #6 · answered by skyguysmommy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its too soon for sex. get real its way too soon you arent healed you will get pregnant again and you will get infected down there the doctor said 6 weeks or a reason.
tell your husband to help with the baby. he needs to understand your body has been through a trauma and needs time to heal. dont have sex. play with his part and jerk him off but no sex its too soon
2006-12-17 16:21:52 · answer #7 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to let your body heal. try doing something diffrent that your husband might enjoy like a masage or something. the doctor is right you should wait for 6 weeks you may get an infection or just be sore for a lot longer.
2006-12-17 16:07:23 · answer #8 · answered by mamak3849 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you tore, or had an episiotomy, I cannot imagine having sex right away. You also risk infection if you do have any healing going on there. Give your husband a nice ********, and tell him to be patient!
2006-12-17 16:21:54 · answer #9 · answered by Robin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah, I recommend that you wait, particularly if you gave birth naturally. Most of my girlfriends who've had babies waited at least five-six weeks before they had sex again, because your bodyneeds time to repair itself after such a huge experience. Just ignore your husband and wait. hope that helps!! OOh, and congrats on your baby girl~!
2006-12-17 16:23:31 · answer #10 · answered by jemm4president 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋