Advice abount Frist Wedding Night-Pls take it serious
Question Details: I am going to be married in next few days I am very nervous, I am meeting girl first time in this situation. In our culture we have to prove our MEN in the first meeting I wanted to know step-by-step guideline after entering to ROOM for e.g what topic to start with ? how I starts to play with her ? How I control my self ? How I arouse her & finally intercourse? I would be very gratefull to you. Thanks in advance
2006-12-17 15:38:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
watch a porno and get ideas from it_
2006-12-17 15:40:39 · answer #1 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hmm. Well, if you're serious, my first bit of advice would be to give up on the idea of overwhelming your new bride with your sexual prowess...because you don't have any sexual experience. And I'm not sure what culture you're speaking of, but generally, if virginity is a valued state, then your wife will have no exeperience either. Correct?
Take the time to be honest with her and become comfortable with her. Don't bother trying to be something that you're not (experienced). That will come later. Right now, it's just two people trying to get to know one another. Forget about the world outside the bedroom door and just focus on her...getting to know her. She's probably scared to death, too. It's okay to let her know that you're very nervous, and you've been worrying about knowing how to please her.
The sexiest thing a man can possibly do is to let a woman know he is fascinated with her and wants to explore every aspect of her...and that he is deeply affected by her. Don't falsify ANYthing. Whatever you do (and I can't possibly tell you what is the right thing to do), make sure it is very real and not put on for show.
This is the woman you will spend the rest of your life with. The world outside can bloody well wait. Forget all of them, and shut them out. This is your world now.
2006-12-17 15:49:56 · answer #2 · answered by intuition897 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This is a very hard question to answer but I will tell you this: Make sure that you are very gentle while speaking to her. Show her some concern. Let her know that how she feels and what she believes in is special. Just make sure that she can trust you.
When it comes down to arousing her, it should be easy if you can make her feel special by kind and gentle words. Make sure that you must know that pleasing a woman is so much more important than pleasing yourself. My husband told me that as long as he has pleased his woman first, he will always be pleased. If you are a virgin, controlling yourself will be very hard but with a little confidence, you will do just fine.
Good luck and I hope I at least helped a little.
2006-12-17 15:44:53 · answer #3 · answered by :) 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Forgive the pun, but do you really think anyone will touch that one with a ten foot pole (in my case an 11 foot pole) and be serious? If you really want to know buy a book at the book store.
2006-12-17 15:43:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I feel sorry for her, poor thing has to be put in a situation as degrading as this.try being nice and get to know her first. maybe wait a month or so until she wants you. why do you have to prove anything. just lie to all your stupid male friends , they won't know the difference.
2006-12-17 15:44:55 · answer #5 · answered by joy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok dude
you make the first mistake marrying the chick but i help you get laid
first what ever her favorive food is guided it to the room your gonna **** her in supposidly its chocolate then light the room with some candles not to many you dont want to burn the place on fire then put on some soft porn only if shes into it to set the mood then give her 1 small kiss but make it last then its all on you brother and 1 more thing dont do any moves thats shes not familiar with while your banging her she may not like it and dump ur *** !!!
2006-12-17 15:44:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
The night of our wedding we fell asleep we were so exhausted.
Just do what feels right to you. Don't worry about anything else.
2006-12-17 16:18:42 · answer #7 · answered by Ade 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be gentle and kind. Make it fun for both and dont rush through it . It only happens one time after all. Talk about sexy things, tell her how beautiful she is, and how much you want to be with her. Start slowly and pay attention to EVERY spot on her body.
2006-12-17 15:44:39 · answer #8 · answered by Raven B 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Every wedding is different and sacred, what u do with your bride that night will definely come naturally.
2006-12-17 15:40:31 · answer #9 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to talk with someone of your own religious faith as what anyone else says will likely get you in big trouble. Good Luck and God be with you!
2006-12-17 15:43:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
In your culture there are people who guide you through your wedding night.....ask those people.
For something this important you would ask strangers on YA...you have more problems than what to do on your wedding night.
2006-12-17 16:03:37 · answer #11 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋