and repeatedly ask him..."what to do with the ring"?
2006-12-17 15:34:51 · 22 answers · asked by penelope 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would either give the guy back the ring or sell it....Maybe she wears it hoping he will come back to her_
2006-12-17 15:36:50 · answer #1 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have ever worn an engagement ring, or wedding ring for any length of time, you get used to it. When it is no longer needed as a sign of your commitment, such as you are divorced, or no longer engaged, a lot of women still wear their rings. It is not a sign that they aren't over it, its a comfort thing. And also, if they aren't ready to date, it holds the masses at bay.
2006-12-17 16:40:35 · answer #2 · answered by bluecast33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I f a girl is dumped but her fiance and still wears her engagement ring it shows that she not quite ready to move on, or maybe its to show that she wants people to think she engaged so they not not to ask her out because she might not be ready for it yet. She might ask him that because she wants him to think shes moving on but really isn't.
2006-12-17 15:38:38 · answer #3 · answered by Emma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now I have already answered this question for you when you worded it differently, but I will try again.....She is a sad, sorry excuse for a human being who can't let go of the past, and continues to harass your Husband which is even more sad in a way. But what I find saddest of all is that you seem to be obsessed with this fact, and if she was doing this to somehow drive a wedge between you and your husband, you are letting her win!!! Doesn't that bother you in the least? You should feel sorry for her, and stop worrying about it, as that is the only worthy response to this situation.
PS, when she asks your spouse what to do with it again, you could suggest he tell her to put it where the sun don't shine, and stop calling us, and have her phone number blocked from your system. (Call Your Phone Co. as they can do this). In my opinion, your spouse is doing all of you a disservice by even bothering to communicate with her, as it is pandering to her untoward behaviour.
2006-12-17 17:06:54 · answer #4 · answered by Crowfeather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes the ring
2006-12-17 16:15:01 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people have lingering thoughts and love even after a break up ,,,, In her own way she's trying to rekindle the relationship maybe ,,,, There just might be true love there and it would bear looking into again ,,,, Maybe try to reconcile differences or issues ,,,, Couldn't hurt ,,,, Might wind up the happier for it ,,,, If you had any feelings for this girl before maybe they are still there but you just don't know it ,,,, Ask yourself if you'd willingly see this girl hurt in any way ,,,, Like I said it wouldn't hurt to check it out ,,,,,,
2006-12-17 15:43:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will enable you to comprehend...you're able to photograph-save it out, or extra suitable yet, take new ones to deliver to her and Aunty and Uncle... She's eighty 3, and merits the main appropriate to be respected, which you for sure do..and that i think of you comprehend the main appropriate answer in the past you even asked it... I drink and curse...and that i've got a tattoo...did my Granny comprehend? of course not! I respected her way too lots to ever do something which could even remotely make her embarrassed of me...did it compromise "who" i'm? of course not...I did what I did out of appreciate for HER... in view which you like her lots, and comprehend her emotions, it would be merciless of you to deliver it with the lip-ring shown. She is of yet another time and technology...and human beings that are often times have a perplexing time accepting "new fangled" issues...Your fiance' could have appreciate for her as properly...that lip ring does not "define" who he's anymore than your jewelry or belt you place on "define" you as someone. At eighty 3, she has surely EARNED the main appropriate to experience and think of as she chooses..and so what if her perspectives are different than yours? Does that rather make everyone "perfect"???? Does that make you in cost of fixing her perspectives? No... appreciate and love your Grandma as you do..and that i might settle for no much less out of your finance'...it would be petty of him to refuse you. and that i might additionally ask that he not placed on it the day of your wedding ceremony...do you rather need to make sure that interior the %. 30 years from now? My Grandmother died 5 years in the past on the age of ninety two...I omit her daily... Do what's perfect by yours my expensive...you would be soooo happy you probably did....
2016-12-30 14:15:12 · answer #7 · answered by gerda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of silly women out there dying for an engagement ring! Now that she's gotten one she probably just likes it! A sparkling rock looks really good on your hand! It's an attention-getter. She probably wants to keep it!
2006-12-17 15:38:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like she really is ready to take it off. Taking off the ring is a sign that it is really over. She keeps asking because she doesn't want to take it off and is waiting for him to either take the ring off or ask her to take it off or ask for it back ending it finally and definitely.
2006-12-17 15:38:52 · answer #9 · answered by cheoli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she might still love him and want to marry him even though he has dumped her. "Wishful thinking" that he will come back to her.
Or maybe the ring was really big and expensive and she just wants to wear it because it is pretty.
2006-12-17 15:41:43 · answer #10 · answered by bashnick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes the ring and asks him what to do with the ring because sometimes bitter ex's get upset and want the gift back. Once he gives her permission to keep it, she'll probably pawn it.
2006-12-17 15:39:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋