trouble with love?

Question

im having alot of trouble getting over my split with my girlfriend. it was 6 months ago and still i cant get her out of my head. the problem is that we are getting alot great as friends now. we are able to do stuff for eachother etc without the thought of getting back together. is this normal??? can a friendship work even though i still love her???? do i need space or should we just continue as we are???

Answer 1

Tough decisions. The question would be, could you pull away even if you wanted to?

I think it might be a healthy thing if you had space. The truth is, no one knows except you, your ex-girlfriend, and God. I suggest talking to her (your ex-girlfriend) and letting her know you have feelings that you are controlling. What if she feels the same?

Answer 2

That all depends on if you want someone else to be your girlfriend. You're going to have issues with any new relationship if you don't let this one go. Most girls do not want to be thought of as competition or second closest to your "friend." If it doesn't matter to you about having a relationship with another woman then it's not a big deal. But you could also be stifling her from moving on as well. How are you going to feel when she finds a new boyfriend? My personal opinion is that you're just complicating things for both of you and that you should both just move on. Either that or both of you do love each other and will figure that out eventually and resolve whatever issues are keeping you apart. She's obviously emotinally attached to you or she would break it off entirely.

Answer 3

it's hard that's forsure but i think you are doing good if you guys are still friends and you will always have feelings for her that's normal but things should work out for you

Answer 4

I know lots of couples who are divorced and are great as friends

Answer 5

sounds normal, be friends and go wid the flow