Nope. Not good. His main goal is getting ahead in life. He'll never give you the attention, nor devotion that you require to be happy.
2006-12-18 02:32:48
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answer #1
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answered by Bondgirl 4
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You are a Cancer, Your Lover is a Aries
Sorry, but this tryst is going to be tough. You are the first water sign of the zodiac and therefore the most sensitive. Tenderness, care, warmth, and security are what you crave most; you bruise easily at the slightest criticism. Home and family are your biggest priorities, but, for your Aries lover, the creation of new enterprises gets top billing. Aries is the first of the fire signs, so Aries are noisy, brash, full of life and aggression, and not very tactful. If you argue with an Aries, he or she will do whatever it takes to win. If your feelings (and ego) are destroyed in the process, so be it. You will wind up feeling like you were hit by a heat-seeking missile. Aries can be ruthless and they frequently go overboard. To make matters worse, Cancers can hear insults when none have been spoken or intended.
There are more difficulties. You have delayed reactions, Cancer, while Aries are quick on the draw. You may not be able to parry and block during an argument as quickly as your Aries opponent, tearing down your self-esteem. Aries is nothing if not straightforward, but the Crab walks in a kind of zigzag pattern, prepared to quietly scuttle into and out of any subject. Aries find this deceptive and calculated. Cancers justify it by calling their actions subtle.
You want stability: in marriage, home life and children. But Aries need to keep their adrenaline pumping, and if romance doesn't stay hot, they are likely to look elsewhere for adventure. Sex is exciting with an Aries lover, especially in the beginning, but for Cancer this will not be enough. You want to be loved deeply for who you are and to forge an intimate bond that can't be harmed by the outside world. Self-absorbed Aries can't sit still long enough for this to happen. Soon you will feel that they are all fire but lacking in real warmth. Don't expect an Aries to nurture you -- they have better things to do. This will depress you, for you nurture everyone and expect the same in return.
You may stand a chance but you will need to work really hard on this relationship. If you don't want to pass up this creature, you might have your custom horoscope done and see if you have other compatible planets in common. We are only studying your Sun sign here, and there may be subtleties that your individual charts can reveal.
2006-12-18 11:37:39
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answered by ~NEO~ 4
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For Aries: The Crab is far too sensitive and slow for your speedy and hot tempered nature. You will have difficulty listening to the Crabs nagging and negativity. This is really a poor match up right from day one.
For Cancer: This is not a very good combination for you. The Ram's lack of tact and their hot temper is just too devastating for your sensitive and insecure nature.
Quick fascination with each other when you first meet but things soon start to deteriorate. Cancer is cautious and Aries leaps without looking. Aries hates being tied down and Cancers heart is where the home is. Aries‘ sharp tongue wounds sensitive Cancer. The more aggressive Aries is the more defensive Cancer is. Soon Cancer will start to nag and Aries will look for greener pastures.
His Arian volatility will offend the Cancer lady's sense of domestic decorum and his casual cruelties will break her heart. If her hurt transmutes into a few of those colossal black moods that her sign is famous for, it might put a bit of the fear of God into even him. But it cannot end well .
This is not a very good love match. When a Cancer girl gets involved with an Aries boy, you want to protect him and cherish him. Meanwhile, this type of snuggly closeness makes him feel smothered and trapped. He also has a bad habit of checking out other girls, which will make you feel incredibly jealous. He won’t apologize for his behaviour either and he’ll get irritated if you point out that he’s flirting. He’s too scared of being fenced in. He is not the type of guy who wants to settle into a cozy love nest, and that’s exactly the kind of loving you need. This match won’t last .
Sorry to bare this, it may not be true but this is the readings of your signs
2006-12-17 23:10:42
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answer #3
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answered by green and blue knight 3
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Aries With Cancer:
This romance can go either way, can be stormy and trouble filled, or work like a well-oiled machine. Cancer can give the Aries the home base they need, but on the negative side, Cancer keeps their hurt feelings to themselves, and you as an Aries are not comfortable with this. Aries tends to blurt everything out. Sensitive and clinging, Cancer may seem like a burden to you in some ways, but you do appreciate the attention. As an Aries you must learn to adapt to Cancer's ways if this romance is to work.
Love & Blessings
Milly
2006-12-17 23:40:45
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answer #4
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answered by milly_1963 7
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"When Aries and Cancer come together in a love affair, it's a case of opposites attracting. Troubles may arise if Cancer's mood swings or Aries's aggression becomes hurtful. Both Signs must take time to listen to their partner's needs and understand that they're coming from different directions to meet a common goal."
-http://astrology.yahoo.com/astrology/compatibility/love
Although I am one to read horoscopes, I take them with a grain of salt. I believe if you love and care for each other, no one can predict your compatibility but you. So don't worry if signs compliment each other or not, just have fun in the relationship, and if it's ment to be, it will be!
Good Luck!
2006-12-17 23:06:03
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answered by modelboys_modelgirl 2
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Nope. Not a good couple. Aries is a huge flirt. Can't stick to one and is really nasty sometimes. And u, a cancerian are exact opposite. So Best of luck!!!
2006-12-18 02:27:31
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answer #6
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answered by Xpress 2 2
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no water (cancer) puts out fire (aries). BUT you guys could have other planets that are compatible such as the moon or rising so u shouldn't base compatibility on just the sun signs.
2006-12-18 02:32:34
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answer #7
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answered by chica™ 3
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Hey that exactly happend to me. My ex is a cancer and I'm an aries, fortunately our relationship didn't work.
2006-12-17 23:15:42
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answer #8
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answered by ♥ Can you help me? 3
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makes no difference whatsoever, if you like him, go for it
2006-12-17 23:00:13
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answered by Anonymous
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nope!
2006-12-17 23:05:41
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answered by secret society 6
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