WHYYY ?!? CONFiDENCE PLEASE?

Question

for some reason, i used to be so much more confident when i used to much fatter. but now i lost the weight and although people tell me i look so much better, i feel like i cant get a guy because i dont have enough confidence. what should i do ?!

Answer 1

Your problem may be that you have a self-image of yourself as fat. Now, when you look at yourself in the mirror, you don't see 'yourself' and it affects how you view the world.

You need to rebuild your ego so that you accept the 'new' you.