ok i always thought i was bisexual and ive done things with girls befor and i like it .But friday i got really drunk and i think i did some stuff with my good friend and now i feel like i did something wrong. is that normal?Cause it was my first time going that far. how do i brake the awkardernedness??
2006-12-17 14:30:47 · 9 answers · asked by lovlylozer 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well maybe becuase i was a friend that may be why its awkard.
That happens sometimes.
But maybe if you try talking to your friend about it. I may become a little easier
2006-12-17 14:44:20 · answer #1 · answered by traven_blood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just use a little denial! Things happen when booze is involved. I think if you even talk a little about it you might even find it very funny! Chances are he feels the same way. As long as you both know that it was a drunk and stupid one time thing, things should smooth out over a little time. Just shrug it off. In the Army stuff would happen when we were drunk. I wasn't trying in the least to get sexual. When guys drink (too much) feelings get blurred and it's kind of normal. Blame it on the booze.
2006-12-17 23:08:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is properly thinking the same thing at the moment. Do you feel you want to talk it over with her? If not and shes doesn't want to bring it up either it may be best just to leave it and carry on like normal. You feel like you did something wrong because shes a good friend of yours, and seeing that you have never done that much with a female before you are not use to it and don't know how to respond or act, which is fine and expected. Just talk normal and if she/you feel that it needs to be discussed just talk about it. But i am guessing she wont want to talk about it. Just think of it as a good time and try and move on, i bet it will happen again thou : )
2006-12-17 23:09:09 · answer #3 · answered by Shes a Cookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saying you are bisexual and actually soing something with both sexes is 2 different things all together, remember it does take 2. But if you were drunk when you did something I wouldn't worry about it. Sounds to me like your inhibitions were down and since you considered yourself as bi you felt like it was the right thing to do. Then once you sobered up you realized you did something that can never be reversed. Now you think you're truly bi. Truth is that about 90 % of the population probably want to know what it would be like to have sex with the same sex. You did it now you know. Just be yourself. If you liked it go with it. If you didn't then you know what to do next.
2006-12-17 22:48:28 · answer #4 · answered by Firebreather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong to get involved like that with anyone when you are under the influence. It isn't fair to either one of you. And it is certainly not the way to start a meaningful relationship! The best way to brake the awkwardness would be to fess up to being out of control and ask to start over sober.
2006-12-17 22:35:45 · answer #5 · answered by Nora Explora 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. That's how you break the awkwardness. Just think about what your going to say, in other words, think about how "you feel" before you say it. Then just let it be know how you feel. No one can blame someone for their feelings, no matter how right or wrong they may seem. If they protest, just tell her that you cannot help how you feel in the light of day and sober and that's all there is.
Good luck.
2006-12-17 23:11:19 · answer #6 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the awkwardness is more likely due to the fact that it was a friend. a friend that you have no feelings for sober and now have to face. when you see each other you probably know that neither have true feelings for each other, yet are both very aware of what happened. sounds like a recipe for awkwardness to me!! chill out...we all do stupid stuff sometimes...it shall pass....in the mean time go find yourself a hot chick and stay out of your circle of friends!!!
2006-12-18 01:31:59 · answer #7 · answered by jmc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember it takes two. OOPS!
2006-12-17 22:35:27 · answer #8 · answered by mikef7408 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, ummmm, do you have those reports for me yet. yeah i really need those. excuse me, do you have my stapler. i really need my stapler.
2006-12-17 22:36:00 · answer #9 · answered by shyboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋