Okay My ex has visitation on christmas eve, bring him home that night and my child would spend christmas eve with his family, christmas morning and early afternoon with my family and his siblings and then christmas night with his family. We talked and he agreed to pick him up at 3:00 until 7-8 p.m. He is now upset because he was going to go get a tree with us and then last week went around crying spreading more rumors that I didn't let him go. Not wanting to deal with this manipulation again I took my children and went and picked up a tree yesterday (without him). Now he is yelling that he is going to pick my son up at 1:00 christmas day keep him to whatever time and will call the cops if I do not make him available on his demand. Sound controlling??
2006-12-17 14:28:30 · 6 answers · asked by cheoli 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i feel I need to straighten something out here. He has him Chirstmas eve. No problem. I have him christmas morning and early afternoon. We agreed Christmas day he would pick him up at 3:00 and keep him until 7-8 p.m. The problem is him demanding he is going to call the cops if I don't give him our son on his time now and on his demand. our son is going to miss out on my side of the family, instead of being able to see both sides.
2006-12-17 14:50:39 · update #1
I have 2 children from a previous marriage and in our visitation papers he gets then christmas eve, but I will also let him get them on christmas day also after i have my time with them.. his is there dad after all we chose to get divorced not the kids.. and believe me he puts me through similar stuff, but think of the kids.
2006-12-17 14:39:29 · answer #1 · answered by nextelfan25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes two to tango.
Look, stop playing games. It's the holidays, it's your kid(s). Stop doing your part to keep the misery alive. You are using your kids as pawns to express anger at each other.
Guess what? those kids grow up to resent it. Keep it up and you might have grown children who don't talk to either parent, and I speak as a grown child of feuding divorced parents and me and my brother do not speak to either parent now. There are no winners.
2006-12-17 14:32:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The children hurt the most...dont forget that..ok
Just work something out with the jerk so the kids can have a good holiday w/out fighting!
2006-12-17 14:33:40 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Luv my kitties♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok who will he be w/x-mas night his father? If the father was supposed to go get the tree w/u then why didn't he?? Go someplace before 1,so he don't ruin x-mas for u & your kids.Don't argue it will ruin it for all the kids or go to courthouse if the 2 adults can't resolve it.
2006-12-17 14:43:21 · answer #4 · answered by Dotr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the paper artwork states you have them for yule than take her to courtroom if she is going against the courtroom order. She won't be able to choose for over the courtroom records purely the courtroom can try this. she would be contemporary in contempt. If she won't be able to make a swap than that's her concern with the courtroom. confident pass to courtroom ASAP.
2016-10-18 10:28:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tad bit. Makes one wonder why you divorced such a charming gentleman.
2006-12-17 14:31:48 · answer #6 · answered by Baby'sMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋