What about if you girl friend/wife(spouse) became fat and not sexy anymore? and she not virgin anymore what you think and what would you do with her ?
2006-12-17 14:22:59 · 9 answers · asked by angon_mouse 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You know, quit being so dang shallow!! It doesn't matter what they look like on the outside.
My wife and I are both overweight, but in my eyes she's the sexiest woman in the world, and it's not becauase of what I see on the outside, it's because I love her for who she is, not what she looks like. I feel in love with her, not her breasts or her body.
That's the problem with this world today, we focus too much on the outside when we should be looking at the inside, that's why so many people have such bad self-esteem issues, because the world says that we have to have these perfect Ken & Barbie bodies. And people who think that I should look like that really upset me.
I love my wife for who she is, not what she looks like. I married her for who she is, not how she looks. And despite what the world says about her, she looks beautiful to me.
2006-12-17 15:07:47 · answer #1 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your banging her of course she can't stay a virgin for ever not possible. that goes with any woman so your back to the same thing again. as far as her being fat and not sexy. do you still love her? if so why not in a nice way suggest she should lose a little weight and maybe buy her some sexy clothes you like to see her in or a hair style what ever it is that isnt' sexy that can be worked on the weight. but if she's more like a librarian style personality you can't make someone sexy if they dont' feel it and ooze it themselves. But you can work on the weight issue. infact offer to work out together so she has a partner and stays motivated.
2006-12-17 16:57:12 · answer #2 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you only expect from a woman a thin body and permanent virginity? What about her as a person? Looks are not that important, but what a person really is in totality that makes for a long-lasting relationship.
Once a woman has sex, she is a virgin no more. Can you dump her for this reason? If a person wants to reduce her fat, there are various ways of doing it. If only you really loved this person, you can help her to get back to shape, and also help her to retain her sexiness. Look at the woman not from an external viewpoint, but as a life-long companion who would give you love, and in return expect love from you at all times.
2006-12-18 12:59:10 · answer #3 · answered by greenhorn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guess u only loved her conditionally, and as long as she didn't get fat, and she appealed to u, all was well, now that the poor woman has gained a few pounds, and u don't think she is sexy anymore, u have no use for her. u really seem to have such a heart, and your so compassionate, and so understanding, but u know what none of us look like we did on our wedding day, and she is only not sexy according to u. this is an immature kind of love, where u base it on weight, looks, and lust, it's all about u, and if your pleased, guess if u don't want her anymore, get a divorce and leave her and find someone who is thin, sexy, and a virgin, cause u already took hers.
2006-12-17 14:54:47 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm asexual, you can't choose to be this way just like I can't choose to not be like this. There is an online community called AVEN for asexuals and those wanting to learn about it. Just a bit of reading on their site should clear this up for you. You are really young, you may grow out of your shyness and even if you don't there are plenty of shy girls out there. Like another person said you are lucky you haven't gotten into all this yet. I would find out what you believe in faith wise and start by praying about this. If you could find a church you like that would be great and it would be a great place to meet someone and take your time getting to know them without all the sex pressure. Diane
2016-05-23 03:24:27 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all figure out whether you wanted her for her looks or what she had on the inside. The outer looks can always change but its whats in the heart that you want to keep..as far as being a virgin if your married you knew she wouldn't be after you got married so live with it. and if you really cared and loved her you would stay with her..
2006-12-17 14:32:19 · answer #6 · answered by curious_59 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would love them. If you are with someone then you should love them no matter what, unless you are shallow, which YOU seem to be just because of your question.
2006-12-17 14:32:44 · answer #7 · answered by Dad of Zach, Payton, & Chance 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL I HOPE SHE DOESNT WANT YOU FOR YOUR CARING AND UNDERSTAANDING CAUSE IF SHE IS FAT OR NOT A VIRGIN DOESNT MATTER IF YU LOVE HER AND SHE YU BUT HOW CAN THAT BE YOUR A JUDGEMENTA JERK!! AND SOUND TO ME THAT YOUR PRETTY DAMN SELFISH HOPE SHE FINDS SOME ONE WHO CARES
2006-12-17 15:08:17 · answer #8 · answered by Msdeb gee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AHHH if you truly love that person it woulnt matter
2006-12-17 14:28:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋