2006-12-17 14:12:32 · 13 answers · asked by goodgrleason 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hey I dont know why but I took on 3 kids and fathered them at the age of 26 and none of my own
2006-12-17 14:45:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know not all men are afraid of marriage or being fathers to their kids, but there are some guys out there who feel that they are being tied down if they get married or have kids, they don't want to change themselves becaue they want to be able to do whatever they want. I think alot of it has to do with a fear of commitment.
And I think it's really sad because it's guys like that who give real men who love their wives/gf's. And love children who have kids and love those kids unconditionally.
My wife and I have been married now for 10 years and we have 3 kids together, and marrying my wife and having our 3 kids are decisions that as a husband and father I havn't regretted. I am so glad that I asked my wife to marry me, and I couldn't be happier to be a daddy to my kids. I love my kids so much, my wife and kids are my whole world and I to run away from that is selfish and also cowardly.
2006-12-17 15:00:37 · answer #2 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Money, responsibility, and they're selfish... not all but some... 50% of marriages fail so he looks at it like 5 years down the road, when the marriage ends... you would be like a car payment til the child turns 18yo...
2006-12-17 14:19:17 · answer #3 · answered by Sandy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are? Strange. I wouldn't have thought so. Are they afraid of marriage and fathering children or is it that they simply don't want to marry or father your children or any children for that matter?
2006-12-17 14:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
They aren't. Most men by age 28 or so really wish to marry. If they aren't, they haven't found the right lady...
2006-12-17 14:46:09 · answer #5 · answered by April 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Expense!
2006-12-17 14:18:35 · answer #6 · answered by mistress76uk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most aren't. my husband isnt he just doesn't want children, ditto for me. for the longest time neither us wanted marriage either.
2006-12-17 14:20:19 · answer #7 · answered by Pandora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know, have no fear of that, got my child, no marriage though, kinda sucks but oh well
2006-12-17 14:16:10 · answer #8 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B/c its commitment and they probably dont want that much responsibility on their head
2006-12-17 14:20:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let's me and you get started(=
2006-12-17 14:14:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋