By hanging with my friends and some new guy friends and just have fun and enjoy a new beginning after Sept 2006 when a man I thought I loved left me after 63 days?
2006-12-17 13:26:39 · 18 answers · asked by Deaf Cowgirl 27 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
63 days was how long I was married. :)
2006-12-18 03:53:56 · update #1
take one step at a time, do not jump into a relationship too early & risk getting hurt again & again, you're now emotionally vunerable, desparately needing the affirmation of beigning needed & loved, make friends, & decide with your head & not your heart, are you sure that you're enjoying your new found freedom & fun, or are you just putting a bold facade for your friends to see, to cover the pains of breaking up? i know that society is not fair to women, always blaming them for any failures, though no fault of theirs,
2006-12-17 13:41:50 · answer #1 · answered by Dreamweaver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are pretty sure there is no chance you and your ex will patch things up, you can certianly start seeing other people.
If you are not sure if this split will be permanent, though, I would think twice about it before doing anything that could be held against you.
If you do start seeing someone else, be up front about the fact that you are still technically married. I lost a really cool girlfriend once because she found out that my divorce had not gone through yet, and I was still technically married.
2006-12-17 21:30:47 · answer #2 · answered by Jay E. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I have, and I'm not looking back. My papers are being filled out right now, so I can get them filed. I was advised to stay away from sex, though, until after the papers were filed. It could turn out to be a tricky situation since you are NOT committing adultery, but are not divorced yet, either. At least after the papers are filed, the real reason for the divorce will already be filed also.
2006-12-17 21:43:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES ! YES ! YES ! You defenitly can! I went through what you are going through- except it took me over 10yrs of marriage for my spouse to tell me she didn't love me. You have been through a lot and have more coping to come, but you should NOT let it change who you are. Remember this is easy to do- so take your mind off the problem and look ahead. Sometimes you need a little distraction from it all to relax and find yourself. Go for it & Best Wishes!
2006-12-17 21:31:51 · answer #4 · answered by Gary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moving on without being divorced -- basically the same thing as "having an affair" because without a divorce decree...you ARE married still.
2006-12-17 21:54:53 · answer #5 · answered by peachysweet2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moving on never really stops anyway. If you're on the road to definite divorce, then do as you please. I wouldn't have any sort of romantic relations with someone until after it's finalized though. I guess it really depends on the situation.
Being single is good. Clear out the system.
2006-12-17 21:29:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow take some time to heal don't rush into another relationship. Take some you times enjoy being single for a while.
2006-12-17 21:29:26 · answer #7 · answered by tellthetruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce=moving on, so if you're planning on getting a divorce you might as well move on now and have fun.
2006-12-17 21:28:52 · answer #8 · answered by kornflake06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2006-12-17 21:28:57 · answer #9 · answered by jt51502004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course...(63 days was as long as your marriage lasted? Whey did you bother, hon??)
2006-12-17 22:34:17 · answer #10 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋