Well i live in Michigan and have alot of friends and my mom and dad lives here and they are divorced(since 99') but my dad wants to move to Kentucky but its up to me i gotta make a choice go and make new friends and probably have a better life because hes moving to start new company's that are proven will be successful but i don't know if its worth leaving my friends and mom. i would still come back alot and see them but i wouldn't go to school here and i can decide if i want to or not its a really hard thing for me to decide and i was wondering what you would do. I like Kentucky but i like Michigan to and i just think it would be fun living there cause i love going there but i don't know if i could live there and go to new school in 10th grade and make new friends and stuff.. i don't know any help to make my choice would be great thanks!
2006-12-17 13:11:13 · 10 answers · asked by Chris Webb 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is a hard choice!!
I would go to make the better life. This is me though and I have fallen on my face more times then I like to remember.
What is more important? Your mom is always going to be your mom and will always be there for you. Your friends if they are true friends will talk to you on the phone etc.
This is the way I see things. Take the chance!
Good luck with your choice.
2006-12-17 13:23:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really hard to say which will be best. It's a major change. Ask yourself what's the worst that can happen. Its probably not that bad. You won't make friends and you'll have a terrible year? You could always move back right?
Let me tell you something. I'm 15 too(freshman) and i made a serious change in "environment" for highschool. I went from a huge public school with all of my friends to a small all girls private school where i didn't know anybody. And it's nice but I wish that i hadn't gone. just way too much to adjust to and all of my friends are having fun and meeting new people that i don't know and i cant keep up. but even i can go back.. and ill be so happy to see my friends
Just you never know how it will turn out. (here comes my point!)It probably wont turn out like that though cause it doesn't sound like you're going to a weird school and it sounds like you've been there before and you like it so it won't be to hard to adjust. So go ahead and give it a try.
sorry if my answer was too long haha =) hope it helps
2006-12-17 13:42:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's really a tough choice, but I think it's one you're going to have to make more than once in your lifetime. I moved quite a bit as a teenager and as an adult for those same reasons and also later for work. Now I live in Houston away from all my family, but still it's been great. My old town freinds are still in my life and I've made many new and awesome friends along the way. What I would be concerned about in the 10th grade is will my grades suffer if change schools mid-year. If you're grades can risk it maybe you should take this new adventure and see where it leads. If you're struggling already, maybe finish out the year and decide then. It's just a suggestion, but I hope it helped. Good luck in whatever you choose. You'll be fine.
2006-12-17 13:18:57 · answer #3 · answered by prhdh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only move out for one year!
I personally wouldn't leave my friends. I think you ought to simply focus on school and get your GPA. If you have friends, you are more emotionally stable.
If you move, that doesn't mean you will make friends there. You will be distracted in trying to make some friends instead of your study.
I took a year off of high school to live in another country, which was the best thing, but I return.
You should move only for a year, not more, plus it will look alot better in the acedemic since you have been around learning different culture.
2006-12-17 13:19:35 · answer #4 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sounds like a pretty smart 15 year old. You are at the age where you can make new friends with no problem. Besides if it doesn't work out you can go back to Michigan. Try it...you may like it.
2006-12-17 13:18:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-05 10:47:12 · answer #6 · answered by schnetter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was 13 i was kicked out of my dad's house and i had to live with my mom in another state. the first three months were hell, i had no friends, and was practly a leper (although i avoided people, i was extreamly pissed that i had to move in the first place). but after a while, you settle into it. then, a year and a half later, i got kicked out of my mom's house and had to live with my dad again.
it would be an interisting experience, you would miss your friends, but they'd get over you.
2006-12-17 13:38:16 · answer #7 · answered by kiss the cook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
New friends can be made. You will always be back to see your mom. Look toward a new future and give living with your dad a chance.
2006-12-17 13:14:25 · answer #8 · answered by eharrah1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for the move since that you will be liven in a nice house and new friends will always be nice since many kids out there have the same interests as you do or almost the same
2006-12-17 13:27:44 · answer #9 · answered by Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you go to kentucky,you'll make yourself a couple of new friends.that's a good thing.i think since you will be coming to michigan frequently,i think its good
2006-12-17 13:18:56 · answer #10 · answered by applejuice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋