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He's this really hot guy...named Cody Scott.......but he's my best friend.I want to date him and he wants to date me too...but i'm afraid that if I date him and we break up later..that we won't even be friends anymore.Please give your honest opinion on what I should do!!!Thanks

2006-12-17 13:08:03 · 14 answers · asked by ___♥Lindsey{[I Give Up]} 2 in Family & Relationships Friends

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yup, from the answers you have recieved already you can see that this happens a lot!
I am guessing that you are still young.
I will share with you that when I was in high school my best friend was a guy. We had been friends for a couple of years. We knew each other very well. By the time we were in senior high things got emotional. We both had feelings for each other but didnt want to admit it to each other. we were incredibly afraid of ruining a friendship that was very important to us.
But in the end our intstincts won. We have been together for seven years now. And very much in love the entire time. I made the best possible decision. And if I hadnt then I would not be married to the man of my dreams today.
But I am guessing that this story doesnt happen all too often. Because if you are too young the high school sweetheart faze does not tend to carry out for too long.

Make a mature decision. But you also dont want to have regrets in your life.

Good Luck.

2006-12-17 13:34:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Date him.

2006-12-17 13:10:31 · answer #2 · answered by S K 7 · 0 0

Cody Scott may run from u if he see's that u put his whole name over the internet

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2006-12-17 13:11:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

GO FOR IT!

10000000000000000000000 % go for it!

if you guys really like each other, that much you won't break up with him later =)

or if you do break up just make sure you guys keep talking the way you normally are as best friends. if you guys are that close then if you break up something like that shouldnt get in the way of a true friendship.
so don't worry about it, just date the guy! lol

2006-12-17 13:11:53 · answer #4 · answered by 2 · 0 0

Spring

2016-05-23 03:16:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

many great LTRs end up as a result of being best friends first... not a problem in my book. put your friendship first and then your relationship as friends will not suffer if you take it to another level. it IS possible to still be friends AFTER being lovers... it just takes maturity. good luck.

2006-12-17 13:12:34 · answer #6 · answered by azcuriousm4u 3 · 0 0

falling in love with bestfriends always happen.. it is a wonderful thing and dont worry about the bad sides just enjoy.
no one knows what will happen

2006-12-17 13:12:03 · answer #7 · answered by labs 3 · 0 0

its typical
when a girl has a best friend, and that person is of the opposite sex, usually they like each other

2006-12-17 13:10:18 · answer #8 · answered by ____ 1 · 0 0

just give it a shot just before it hapens make it clear to him that no matter what happens you always want to be friends

2006-12-17 13:11:04 · answer #9 · answered by emoXOXOXlove 1 · 0 0

I think no because you just know him as a friend you do not know his sex cravinging just pray and ask god for help.

2006-12-17 14:34:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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