A bad habit that should not be. A spouse to be more.... etc.
Or if no change, why?
2006-12-17 12:32:08 · 22 answers · asked by art_girlt 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If I could change one thing about my wife, it would be her self esteem. She is a great woman, great wife, and a wonderful mom. I love her deeply but she thinks so little of herself. I am very lucky.
2006-12-17 14:59:22 · answer #1 · answered by Dad of Zach, Payton, & Chance 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I could change one thing about my husband it would be the lack of affection that he shows. I would like for my husband to be a little bit more romantic not only on the birthdays or a special holiday but just a little thinking of you day.
2006-12-18 03:07:19 · answer #2 · answered by TAE M. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like my husband to want to work steadily enough to support our family and help me out more. I am tired of taking all the overtime I can get just to barely scrape by. I'm in need of an operation that I can't afford to take the time off to have because he won't keep working. Always full of excuses. I support the family and don't have a problem with doing it. I just wish he'd want to help.
2006-12-17 20:55:22 · answer #3 · answered by sallylip2000_ca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont have much to change. the only thing i dont like is that he barely takes showers. he works in durt all day and comes home all smelly and yucky and wont take a shower. he takes one per week. im not kidding. he thinks thats enough. the reason why he wont take a shower, well two reasons. first, he is lazy and too tired. second, he says that tomorrow is going to work again and he will get durty again so whats the point. i love him so much and iv tried and tried to change this about him, but cant. one year later and still nothing. oh well. i still love him.
2006-12-17 20:53:56 · answer #4 · answered by All4Christ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is both the husband and wife both ok
theres nothing wed want to change about each other well expect one thing and that would be the distance between us that we had before we met each other but i guess as the saying goes
" Good things come to those who wait" and to this day theres nothing wed want more or change
2006-12-17 20:47:11 · answer #5 · answered by Angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be more romantic and compliment me. My husband never compliments me, not even when I try to look really nice for him. He'll tell me I'm beautiful, but only after I start dogging on myself just to get a reaction from him. And, I look exactly the same as when he fell for me.
2006-12-17 20:50:38 · answer #6 · answered by catwoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No change because when you say go left they go right. men don't like for women to try to change them focus on what you fell in love with in the beginning. Do you want him to tell you to change no you want to change your faults when you and Jesus gets ready to same for him do more prayingless suggesting more loving and accepting one another and maybe he will change on his own wouldn't that be nice
2006-12-17 20:55:06 · answer #7 · answered by tellthetruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would want my husband to defend me when someone like his mother is treating me very badly for no reason. He sits there and allows people to trample all over me and I have to stick up for myself and for him as well because he won't even take up for himself. I want him to be less passive and meek and become more assertive.
2006-12-17 21:41:17 · answer #8 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing! i love my husband just the way he is & because i love him so much, i accept all his flaws & imperfections. I would not dare try & change him. A marriage is not just about love, but also about respect & acceptance.
2006-12-17 20:45:36 · answer #9 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing I want him to change is
He must eat to live, not live to eat...cos now he has a lot of health problem due to that and is at a obese state!
2006-12-17 20:45:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋