My boyfriend's mom is leavin his dad and he wants to talk to me about it. I usually know exactly what to say but this is a situation I've never lived through seeing that my parents are happily married. I really want to help him but... what should I tell him? I care about him so much and I hate seeing him upset so if you could help... I'd really really appreciate it. -Lindsay
2006-12-17 12:29:24 · 5 answers · asked by ♥L-L-Lindsayyy...♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Listen and support him that is what he needs most at this time. He maay think its his fault which it isnt and be aware the parents may try to use him against each other which is wrong.
2006-12-17 12:53:51 · answer #1 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are NO good answers for him, letting him vent is helpful
but not always, if there is no violence invloved in the divorce
make sure to tell him both his parents love him, and also let
him know there is NOTHING he can do to change whats happening
its NEVER the kids fault...
2006-12-17 12:35:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just listen attentively to what he has to tell you and tell him how much you care about him and want him to feel well.don't advise him to do anything because that will be his decision. and also say thank you for trusting you so much with his very personal matters.
2006-12-17 12:34:21 · answer #3 · answered by hope55 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry so much about what to say but just be there for him. This is going to be a tough time for him and he will need you.
2006-12-17 12:32:19 · answer #4 · answered by eharrah1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt have to tell him much if he is stressing about it that much he will talk about it when he gets ready. my parents just recently got divorced just tell him that he shouldnt be worried about it cause its not his fault
2006-12-17 12:36:46 · answer #5 · answered by Mo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋