I am constantly trying to convince myslef not to look at other girls I consider "hot" because I feel attracted to them more than guys...but when I see an extremely hot guy, I am attracted to him too... I've gone out with guys, but I don't feel anything close to what I feel when I am near my best friend whom I joke around all the time...we walk around school hugging and acting like we were lesbians and going out...people know that am just joking, but then I don't know if I'm still joking because I don't want to stop joking...I am confused and don't know whether or not I could be a lesbian....the only reason I think I might be bisexual is because I've gone out with guys, but I can't picture myself being sexually attracted to them...
2006-12-17 12:27:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
In high school I preferred spending time with my girl friends, but dated a couple of guys. In college, I dated guys and got serious about guys, but started having romantic feelings towards a girl friend. I had lesbian, gay, and straight friends, so it didn't worry me too much what my label was...I married a guy but it didn't work out..so later I dated women and was with a woman for a long time (years). Now I'm dating guys..I consider myself a bisexual now, but I have also considered myself a lesbian, and before that, heterosexual..people like labels, but a lot of times, it just doesn't reflect how you feel.
Good luck!
2006-12-17 12:43:48 · answer #1 · answered by edith clarke 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well either way you have to accept youself. If your lesbian try "hanging out" with a girl your friends don't know so you can find out if thats te way you want to go If you find you like both then your bi just go with the flow you'll be ok your real riends will support you no matter what
2006-12-17 12:34:54 · answer #2 · answered by Tommorws Dreams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haven't you ever heard of "lesbian till graduation?" thats a college thing, im guessing you're still in H.S. Take your time don't analyze so much when you fall in love and its real, it won't even matter. Keep your options open and don't worry so much about putting yourself in a box and slapping a label on it.
2006-12-17 12:49:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think you might be bisexual because if you are a woman and you cant see yourself being sexual attracted to guys then theres your answer.
2006-12-17 12:34:45 · answer #4 · answered by candylicker_2010 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would take time to actually find out what you truly are.. dont worry about the question 2 much just be yourself. the answer would be clear later on
2006-12-17 12:33:22 · answer #5 · answered by healedwounds31490 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you're not sexually attracted to guys and attracted to women, odds are you're lesbian. Welcome to the club.
2006-12-17 16:29:32 · answer #6 · answered by carora13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋