I WAS EATING AT A RESTRAUNT AND THIS GUY KEPT STARRING AT ME A CUTE WAY SO I SMILED AND DID THE SAME
2006-12-17 12:25:55 · 24 answers · asked by Baby Girl 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I went out to a restraunt and this guy was staring at me in a cute way and i smiled and just looked at him from time to time
2006-12-17 12:28:49 · update #1
That's not cheating, not even close. Life would be seriously boring if you could never even look at another man. Look, but don't touch.
2006-12-17 12:28:29 · answer #1 · answered by Katya-Zelen 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
At first I could say NO but when you added that you kept on looking at him time to time and responded back with a smile is a different story. Just imagine, you are in a restaurant, you are enjoying your boyfriends company, until you noticed that the attention of your boyfriend is with another woman whom he is occasionaly glancing and smiling. I call that flirting and is close to cheating. Unless your boyfriend is cool about it, then I say go ahead, flirt to your hearts desire but if you could not even tell your boyfriend what has happened, then that is a big problem. What if you see the guy again, alone without your boyfriend, would you talk to him?
You know what, this is my suggestion. Talk to your boyfriend now. Ask him if someone would smile at you, how would he react. Tell him that you are afraid he might react violently if someone will smile at you for no reason. Just say that this happened to someone you know at work or school and it created a big mess.
2006-12-18 02:26:11 · answer #2 · answered by PAXson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its called being alive. everyone will look at someone they find attractive male or female it is not cheating.. just remember that just because youre on a diet doesn't mean you cant look at the desert tray
2006-12-18 10:26:17 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not its not. Unless u acted on it and went over there and tried puttin the moves on him no. just smiling and lookin at another guy is not cheating. If it was oh god, save us all lol!
2006-12-17 20:29:12 · answer #4 · answered by D-Fox 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. EVERYBODY checks out attractive people. It's not cheating just being human.
2006-12-17 22:27:10 · answer #5 · answered by DawnDavenport 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, of course not. That's just being friendly and returning a smile.
2006-12-17 20:52:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You LOOKED at a man??????
OMG how dare you???????
That is the worst kind of cheating.
You should gouge your own eyes out.......or maybe you already did, which is why you couldn't see well enough to know this is the gay section.
2006-12-17 21:16:06 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looking isn't cheating.
2006-12-18 06:30:57 · answer #8 · answered by Eat At The Y 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called be human! your going to naturally be attracted to other people besides the guy your dating, unless you want to walk around blindfolded.
2006-12-17 21:54:00 · answer #9 · answered by Diana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We're girls. We're human. We have eyes. No. It's not cheating. Looks arent why you love your man-- and you arent doing anything. just looking. harmless-- unless your boyfriend is extremely sensitive.
2006-12-17 20:35:33 · answer #10 · answered by Missy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋