2006-12-17 11:31:10 · 11 answers · asked by Courtney B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell your friend. If she is really your friend, she will talk to the dude. You know, the sistahood always says, "Anybody who don't like my friend don't like me."
If your friend gets angry, apologize, and stick to your friend like glue. That dude better get an attitude straight.
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2006-12-17 11:34:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, if he is a total jerk to you - he'll eventually turn into a jerk for her. Don't interfere, be nice to him and let him show off his character flaws. She'll just be forced to see them eventually. If you try to break it apart - you're risking your friendship and saying that you don't trust her judgment on men. I've been in this situation before. Okay, so my friend had to find out for herself what a jerk he was - even if it did take 5 years for her to see it - 5 years of me taking his verbal abuse too. In any case, we're still friends many years later and now we laugh about that guy because she's married to someone totally better who is very decent and totally likes me. My family and their family are like relatives. Trust me, things will change. Just be there for her when it does fall apart. If you're not really close friends then it's time to find a new friend - it's not worth it to take the abuse unless you're really close friends. Who wants to battle their friends over a boyfriend or feel like you're trying to control things? She's probably not going to pick you if you do that.
2006-12-17 19:43:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's mean to her too than I would definitely tell and push them to break up!If he wasn't mean to her and it only seemed like he was mean to me then I wouldn't say anything. I would also try to stay away from them when their together. I wouldn't want to ruin their relationship if it's going good.
2006-12-17 19:35:23 · answer #3 · answered by caligirli21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him there is a costume party, when there isn't even one. Beg him to let you dress him as a girl. Do it up right. Make up pretty dress lingerie and the works. Take lots of pictures and then put them in a safe place. Tell him if he is ever mean to you again lots of his friends etc will see the pictures.
2006-12-17 19:34:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
-I would tell my friend what her boyfriend did to you...
-Tell her how you feel...
-Ask her what she thinks about it...
-Then tell her what you think about it...
-If it is really bad after you do this i would go to a therapist...
If she is really your friend than she should break up with her boyfriend...He hurt you some how... and it isn't fair for ur friend to go out with him when he did whatever he did to you!!!
Good Luck, with love,
Texas Chica
I feel so sorry 4 u! But try those steps and if she doesn't even talk to her boyfriend about what he did to you...And tell him it was wrong...What kind of friend is that...?
2006-12-17 19:40:09 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stay out of it. there is nothing you can do.
your friend obviously can see how he acts, and if you are pushing for them to breakup then i am sure she got the hint that you are not a fan of him
so you've expressed your peace, now it is time to forget about it. move on. you can't change it. hopefully your friend will choose to remove herself from his company at some point.
2006-12-17 19:34:24 · answer #6 · answered by don't be rude. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell the friend. If they are a good friend, they will resolve the problem, and if it continues, tell them and eventually, they will break up with them!!!
2006-12-17 19:34:53 · answer #7 · answered by crazy baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not hang around when she was with her boyfriend and hope that someday she will realize on her own that anyone that doesn't get along with her friends won't get along with her.
2006-12-17 19:33:52 · answer #8 · answered by queenmaeve172000 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
why isn't your friend aware of what is going on? and, if she's truly a friend, she will not allow her mean boyfriend to treat you this way.
2006-12-17 19:34:19 · answer #9 · answered by tcbtoday123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away because he will do the same to ur friend soon
2006-12-17 19:33:53 · answer #10 · answered by samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋