My dads gf, Lisa is my best friend, Dallas's mom. They live in Texas and me and my dad live in Missouri. I like Lisa but lately she is getting on my nerves. She always wants my dad to go she her. She never comes here and I never get to see Dallas. I never see my dad anymore and I want him to be happy. I want them to continue to be together but what should I say to them?
2006-12-17 11:29:05 · 17 answers · asked by claire 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
talk to them just tell them your thoghts
2006-12-17 11:31:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never been in this situation but I think that you should say something to them about the "future". Like, " If you guys are going to be together for a long time, than you should figure out a living plan. Lisa could move here, or we could move there." Just be sweet without sounding bratty or spoiled.
2006-12-17 11:34:21 · answer #2 · answered by XxXTaRaXxX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. Tell your dad that while you like Lisa, you feel that he isn't spending enough time with you and that you would also like to spend more time with Lisa's daughter. Tell your dad that you want him to be happy and that if Lisa makes him happy that you want their relationship to continue but that you want to be more of a part of it.
2006-12-17 12:41:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
speek to your dad ,,Lisa needs to be accepting of you if she wants to play family .. do not be mean but make sure your dad understands , do not put him in a situation where he has to chooose between the both of you ,,he does love you but also needs a life its tricky ground your on
2006-12-17 11:33:26 · answer #4 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them how you feel. You are part of this family too. You want it to work. But that can only happen if you feel included.
2006-12-17 11:30:24 · answer #5 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your dad to brake up with her and find another girlfriend and tell him what you think about his girlfriend .
2006-12-17 11:33:13 · answer #6 · answered by cute_princess8507 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mind your own business and get a new friend as mean as it sounds
2006-12-17 11:31:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like someone has a jealous bone.
2006-12-17 11:30:43 · answer #8 · answered by waxingtheturtle2 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to your dad's gf on the phone and talk about it. im sure she'll understand.
2006-12-17 11:30:37 · answer #9 · answered by Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your dad.
2006-12-17 11:31:28 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋