Everything in my life is completely running downhill. I have a fight with my parents everyday and i just want to end my life sometimes. I know there are people out there who have it a lot worse than me but I dont care because I'm not complaining just asking for what should i do?
2006-12-17 11:24:14 · 11 answers · asked by jkballuk 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I understand, life can seem soooo unfair and everything is falling apart. You may feel like your falling into the bottomless pit and you can't get out! You may feel that your parents don't understand you ,much less, anyone else. So, what's the point of even trying!
I understand because I've been there too. Just breathe and wait. It WILL pass...I promise. Yes, life sucks at times. But, I promise it will pass!
And no, we don't always have to be told, "we should be grateful." No, sometimes life just SUCKS and you have the right to be upset. You have the right to be heard. You have the right to be acknowledged. You have the right to be respected.
Life just sucks at times. But, it is also awesome just as many times! Life happens in cycles, just like waves in the ocean.
Close your eyes and image your in your future life, away from today's troubles. Nice car? Nice House? What do your clothes look like in your future? Image your there. Every time you feel crappy, do this image of yourself in your future. You can beat this, I believe in you!
2006-12-17 12:06:34 · answer #1 · answered by dearreal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit back take a few deep breaths and think about everything good in your life. Don't do anything rash.
Ok so you argue with your parents right! So you must be a teenager right!
Look before you do anything stupid talk to your pastor of you have one. If not seek out and talk to a Catholic Priest.
Remember this if you do that you are not hurting another but yourself. That is not worth it.
Don't you think it will be a lot more fun staying alive just so you can annoy them.!!!!!!!!!!
Also talk you school's councilor about this.
But at least talk to someone. Every teenager feels that way as some time or the other. How you are feeling is not unusual at your stage of life. It is part of finding your own identity.
Don't you think it will be a lot more fun staying alive and driving your parents nuts.
But if you can't shake the feeling. See and talk to someone about it.
2006-12-17 11:40:08 · answer #2 · answered by JUAN FRAN$$$ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to evaluate some of the things in your life and what means the most to you. What about things that are going good for you? What about things you can change?
I think most people have the capacity of changing their lives and making a turn for the better. I think everyone should persue happiness; it really is only a state of mind.
God or no God, the universe around you is a magnificant and malificent world where sometimes things are more beautiful than words are capable of describing, and at other times worse than we can bear. I think the key here is recognizing that the life you have been given is a gift, and you only have one shot at life. Noone here on this planet is going to escape it alive; enjoy and make the best out of every day you're here. You make the best of what you were given; you make goals and then create a reality.
Noone here has the power to change your life other than you, and you have to find it within you to do that before you can truely accept that life is worth living.
2006-12-17 11:38:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk things over with a close friend.
Consult a relative about the problems with your parents.
Try to make things right.
Realize that you can get yourself out of this depression and you are a strong capable individual.
If none of these work, approach your parents and tell them your strong feelings.
There also always is a therapist phone line, a quick search in google will find you that.
Dont be too hard on yourself and dont give up hope.
You are unique and there are people that love you.
2006-12-17 16:49:08 · answer #4 · answered by Kevin P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i certainly hope that u are not serious with the thougts.I know it is hard 2 be in ur situation.having a fight everyday with ur love one especially ur parents is not what every people dreams to have in their life.but try to look back on what the cause.if u reaaly confident that u are not guilty and that are all ur parent fault than than try to seek help from other trusted people such as ur best freind, caunselor, or even psychiatrist.pour out all of ur problems.dont feel shy as it wont help u.think rationally.if u do suicide do u really think ur suffering will over?how about the life after death?whenever u have problems just think of many people out there that have it worse than u.how they cope with it.remember the life in this world is just too short.enjoy and have fun as long as u can.just ignore about ur parents and letthem know that how hard the torchering ur mind u are still so strong to have fun in this relly fantastic world.good luck to u.
2006-12-17 11:40:31 · answer #5 · answered by charlie89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem that you do sometimes..i always think to myself "i just want to kill myself" but i know i would never have the balls to do it..i get in fights with my parents a lot to, and that makes all the shi*t i'm going through even worse. just try to hang in there. everything will get better eventually, you just have to stay positve..sometimes it does seem like everything is falling apart--my grades, my family, my whole life..but i try to think of the positve things and that makes it a little better. try it, k? just keep your head up :)
2006-12-17 11:57:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRAVEL. Go on a road trip or something. You need something to bring excitement back to your life. By going to new places you'll discover other things that can make you happy. If you can't leave, just try new things. Variety is the spice of life.
2006-12-18 06:02:08 · answer #7 · answered by Mighty Thinker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you have any spirituality about you, I would really ask you to pray to God to get some guidance. Dont let someone or something stop you from shining in life. Death is not the answer and it is final.
Find the things that you dont like and please change them, first.
2006-12-17 11:33:55 · answer #8 · answered by â¤??? ?å???? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What i like out of existence, is waking up interior the Morning and thamking God for granting me yet another day of existence. What I Hate is dropping my day on something that takes my entire day, and that i did no longer get to do the flaws i love to do.
2016-10-18 10:20:18 · answer #9 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call someone and talk. Typing is too impersonal and what you need is an actual person.
2006-12-17 11:38:47 · answer #10 · answered by gohornsnationalchamps 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋