Is my husband cheating on me?

Question

He goes out 3 or 4 times a week, never has stayed out real late though, no proof though just a bad feeling i have,What should I do?

Answer 1

you should have more confidence on him if he is really cheating on you then it will come out in the moment it should... i recommend you to trust him and just talk to him like if you are just interested on what he is doing when he hang out because you want to do the same but never giving him the feeling that you don´t trust him because then it will be worse... just be patience

Answer 2

This is a touchy situation. Usually I would go with the woman's intuition. But you definitely need to investigate more. Find out where he's going or ask him to see if he will take you with him. If he gives you some lame excuse, that's when you need to seriously get to the bottom of it (cell phone bills, numbers in the pocket, is he answering your calls when he is out?).

Be beware...if he's not cheating on you and you snoop and get caught, you will never hear the end of it. But if he really is cheating and you find out...you will have to decide to stay with him or leave. Either way....it's always a hard decision,

Answer 3

one night when he is going out go with him, he might say no , if he say so, do not get mad, just let him know that you really want to be with him that night.
it is no good to call him cheater when you are not sure.

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Answer 4

First of all ask him. But 9 times out of 10 our intuition is right. Get some proof then get a lawyer. Good luck

Answer 5

Ask him. Some people will tell you to sneak around and follow him, but then what if he isn't? Then you have violated the trust of your own relationship. You should take the straightforward and honest route of asking him directly and telling him you are concerned. Be prepared, he may lie and say that he is not, but give him a chance to confess first. Good luck.

Answer 6

talk to him let him know how u feel about he being out 3 or 4 times a week ask him if u can join him and if he say no ask him y not,if he start giving u pointless excuses,come out and accused him of cheating c what he will say.

Answer 7

Some statistics say that 85% of women who feel their lover is cheating are correct an 50% of men who feel their lover is cheating are right. If you have suspicions, observe and note what you see and hear, there is a chance that you will discover some kind of evidence.

Answer 8

it is ok girl just let him go out 2 or 3 times a week

Answer 9

I find it very odd that he would go out so often without you. Does he say where he is going? Has he invited you? Do you have children at home that prevent you from going? I think we need a bit more info to answer this intelligently and logically.

Answer 10

confront him just ask him to honestly tell you were he goes out to. and since hes your husband you have to trust whatever it is he says but you could always guilt him into telling you by making him feel bad. like be like you know how much i love you right? and just little things like that eventually if he is cheating he'll feel bad and tell you or he'll stop.