been w gf for a year and a half. she goes out with friends from college, girls night out. usually they goto a club or a bar.
then i learned that b4 me she used to hook up (grind dance, make out w 'hotties', not typically go all the way) when she'd go with this bunch and has cheated on at least one guy this way. i resisted the urge to become controlling over mere suspicion - but i started looking at the way she dressed differently, etc.
so, i concluded that she could be cheating on me, and i would never know. i became resigned, and started to have fun with the idea. about 6 months ago, i acted on it - before she went out, i gave her a condom to keep in er purse, telling her i'm not suggesting she use it, but just in case . . . she took it, and from that point on there has been a don't ask/ don't tell policy thats turned into a hot game, and an understanding that nothing will affect us.
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2006-12-17 10:16:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys