Knowing that they have cheated on their husband talks badly to family members and then expects you to talk nicely to them I just dont understand how someone can say whatever they want to you but you try to tell them your feelings and they just dont get it Anyone know anybody like this and how did u handle the situation?
2006-12-17 10:16:23 · 11 answers · asked by corkscrew62816 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think that person probably has some kind of mental issues going on. She doesnt sound stable. I do know someone like that who tries to act superior to everyone but backstabs everyone. She cant survive without drama.If its not happening she makes it (drama) happen.So I try not to be manipulated by her b/c she is just looking for a response-good or bad. I distanced myself from her-let everything be part of the past and I have nothing to do with her.
Try to take a bit from all your answers and do not be concerned with this person. You need to keep the positive in your life including positive relationships. The negative drains a persons energy. Write her off.
2006-12-17 14:29:55 · answer #1 · answered by baghmom 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My Dad has harm me the main. He died 5 years in the past. I did attempt to confront my Dad previously he died. it became 6 years that we did no longer communicate. It appeared like each and every thing became going o.k. and then a pair of three hundred and sixty 5 days previously he died i found out that he betrayed me. He lied to me in simple terms so as that his new spouse ought to work out that he became a "good" Dad.. no longer! nicely now that he has been long gone for 5 years, i discover that I want I had a minimum of confronted him (the 2d time) and instructed him precisely how I felt. you are able to no longer administration how a guy or woman treats you, yet you do have administration over the form you sense, and to me it relatively is in simple terms no longer nicely worth questioning if i will have forgiven him previously he became long gone. Now it relatively is in simple terms too overdue and that i will continually be left questioning!
2016-10-15 03:29:01 · answer #2 · answered by pereyra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat them like **** and when they confront you about it then tell them, it doesn't feel so good now does it, I have encountered this and that is what I did and low and behold they came straight to me and confronted me and then I told them. Some people just don't get it and they need to be showed. Good luck.
2006-12-17 10:21:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know someone like that and he turned out to be a sociopath- somebody who has no conscience, to say the least.
But if you wanna confront someone who has done a lot of wrong in the family, just do it. No buts about it. Defend yourself. But just don't expect that other person to give you the answer you want, or to finally change his/her (I assume "her", in your case) ways.
2006-12-17 10:19:09 · answer #4 · answered by purringout 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't let them ruin your relationship with others. Be better than this person. Don't stoop to this level. You need to learn that you can not change anyone but yourself. Don't let them steal your joy. In the long run you reap what you sow. If you do good things you will be given good blessings. If you do bad things you recieve bad things. Be an example to this person. He/she will also reap what he/she sows.
2006-12-17 10:22:34 · answer #5 · answered by jan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
going through similar situation myself, a relative of mine attacked me in my own home and whilst i was holding my 1 year old daughter - and now my husband and i are the mean ones as we won't let her near our children. and the incredible thing is that she denies doing it - to deal with it i've cut all ties, my children come first - good luck
2006-12-17 10:24:46 · answer #6 · answered by taevey 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You confront them with the truth and evidence.
2006-12-17 10:17:37 · answer #7 · answered by Trapped in a Box 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
relized that they had mental and emotional issues , and then distanced myself from that person.Someone like that is too immature to change - at least for now
2006-12-17 10:19:41 · answer #8 · answered by andy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have proof and comfront them in front of everyone. Then you will get them back!!!!!!!
2006-12-17 10:18:13 · answer #9 · answered by mellybell143 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds familiar, take away his cocain
2006-12-17 10:22:51 · answer #10 · answered by jlbudweiser 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋