2006-12-17 09:30:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can take the easy, but painful choice, and get divorced. Or, you can take the much more painful and difficult choice, which is to change the marriage. Unless you two are morons, there were good reasons you married. You two can decide to fix it.(the marriage) Not the marriage you had, but what you can have together tomorrow.
2006-12-17 12:08:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage involves 3 things. 1. Self Love, 2. Love for each other, 3. Love for working together and creating a unified life. When the marriage appears to be loveless chances are there is a problem with #1 or #2 but most often with #1. People think getting married means sacrificing who you are and making time for personal enjoyment for the sake of the other. This breeds self neglect which will always decrease the love for the other and bring about a loveless marriage. Increase your awareness, intentions and actions of self love and you'll automatically increase your love for your spouse and your marriage will automatically improve in love!
2006-12-17 10:13:11 · answer #2 · answered by Love to Love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work on it & bring love back into it..
Get a divorce...
Stay in a loveless marriage...
2006-12-17 09:32:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seperate for a while, see how things go. Then if you guys still want each other, then get back. If not, divorce. All I can say is make sure, it is loveless, because if not, then someone is going to get hurt =(
2006-12-17 09:36:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a choice.....
Too little is known from your question as to the causes, and/or circumstances that have lead to your feelings of hopelessness
in your marriage to provide an adequate answer.
Seek counseling from a professional with your spouse.
If you can ask to Yahoo Answers, your spouse deserves the courtesy to be spoken with first........Work on your marriage.
2006-12-17 09:46:25 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. US of A, Baby! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find a way to get the love back in your lives. Therapist, taking a trip together, doing something you both enjoy doing together....etc. Or just get a divorce if you both feel there is no hope for your marriage. You have to "try" first.
2006-12-17 09:35:07 · answer #6 · answered by Pretti Poodle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this worked for my family....
my parents were about to get a divorce but we suggested therapy. they went to therapy and noticed they loved eachother is just some problems were not resolved, they still held grudges. so now, its been over 2 years now since therapy and they seem happier than ever.
so they can either get a divorce, marital therapy, or just take a break for a while from eachother like vacation and see what they need from eachother. but they first need to conversate about their feelings and see whats the next step they need to take.
2006-12-17 09:36:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce.
2006-12-17 09:42:23 · answer #8 · answered by tko43078 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it all depends on whether or not you used to love your spouse. If you did, what changed it? Is it reconcilable? Do you think that you can fall in love again?
If not, try counseling. If counseling doesn't work, I guess that you could consider divorce.
2006-12-17 09:34:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on,Ive just come out of a relationship like that,and i felt it was over for 2 years but stayed in it just in case things improved-needless to say it didn't and i wasted 2 years of my life and life's too precious to do that,get out of it,you wont look back
good luck
2006-12-17 10:12:19 · answer #10 · answered by NATALIE W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋