do u think a boy who got me preg and lefted me and now iz crying to come back do u think we would get married or no!!!!
2006-12-17 09:27:12 · 13 answers · asked by sissybng312027 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Personally if my boyfriend left me after we got pregnant, came crying back to me I'm not sure I'd even want to get involved with him again much less marry him. Luckly here I am at 8 months along and my boyfriend has stuck by myside.
I think that you should wait a while to see what happens, how he is treating you and your child. Give it 6+ months and then make up your mind whether or not you should marry him.
2006-12-17 09:37:21 · answer #1 · answered by Just Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you really want him back? If he was willing to leave you once who says he won't do it again. I can only imagine how hard it would be to raise a child by yourself but I have several friends who have done it both ways and the ones that got back with the father seemed to have more stress due to not only focusing on their child but also a very selfish bf who doesn't really want to help and causes more stress in the long run. Most of them got rid of the bf and said that they are doing better without them because there is less stress. Best of luck.
2006-12-17 17:32:26 · answer #2 · answered by Autumn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get married just because you're pregnant. Both pregnancy and marriage are serious issues for mature people. From your grammar and writing skills (lack thereof), it appears you are young. Your question indicates you are also immature. You should have used a condom or avoided intercourse altogether. He's crying because his friends probably told him how much it costs in child support. Getting married under these circumstances will more than likely lead to divorce.
2006-12-17 17:35:42 · answer #3 · answered by Tellin' U Da Truth! 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I had my first child before I became married but I was engaged and planning on getting married and he never left me. Also, he was a man not a boy. He was not in his young 20's either. Most men mature in their mid to late 20's.
2006-12-17 17:40:31 · answer #4 · answered by Justme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to get married because of a child no. that is only hurting the child, because the parents didn't want to get married in the first place. but if he wants to be in the child life. than go for it he can still help you out with the child and maybe down the road , if you both are still together and love each other then i would say go for it.
2006-12-17 17:35:19 · answer #5 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not get back with him, but consider what is best for your child. That is the most important thing to keep in mind. Whether it be raising him/her yourself, finding a spouse, or giving it up for adoption, your kid is the most important thing. It sounds like the guy is definitely not ready to be a parent, and I think you have to consider if you are as well.
2006-12-17 17:36:36 · answer #6 · answered by j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO... staying together or getting back together for a child never works. If he loved you he would have never left in the first place. If he marries you and feels trapped he could take it out on you and the child.......
2006-12-17 17:35:24 · answer #7 · answered by missy b 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boys are too young to get married.
Wait until he is a MAN (over 21 years old), or an adult, to get married. Consider adoption for your baby if you don't have good family support.
2006-12-17 17:31:36 · answer #8 · answered by EmLa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont marry a boy who got you pregnant and left you, but now wants you back .Obviously he is a loser.
2006-12-17 17:31:59 · answer #9 · answered by ♥It's a boy♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why is marriage the next step for you? If your waiting for someone to say yes marry him, your not ready.
2006-12-17 17:39:26 · answer #10 · answered by steffi bunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋