Why do some women go to clubs wearing almost nothing at all, but then get mad when a guy says something or makes a comment?
2006-12-17 09:13:59 · 10 answers · asked by Jon C 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
The problem is that women don't realize the effect that revealing clothing has on men. From what I've been told men are pretty much wired to randomly remember images like that; unfortunately a lot of women seem to believe that guys should think just like them and should not be turned on at all by skin. Or it may be that they don't like the particular guy making the comment...either way I think a lot of women are just trying to get positive male attention, but they only end up attracting the negative attention. I wish females would realize this, but for some reason most don't.
2006-12-17 09:18:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Men don't have the time to approach EVERY woman so women do what they can to make themselves more attractive and the reality is that showing some skin helps. That doesn't mean that they want to have a conversation about their features. Now, some women know how to take a compliment or two and others will get mad no matter what you say, for example, Reverence who just answered that "Generally, it is unacceptable and unwanted for a stranger to approach or talk to you, no matter what the setting." Some of my best friends were met this way.
2006-12-17 09:52:47 · answer #2 · answered by m33how 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
220love has the superb answer hands down! I appeared this up because i wanted to carry close why. Why?? that's not good in any respect!! i'm a 29yr previous male. i trust like if a lady has large curves, they're going to coach regardless to what she wears. you do not ought to positioned on pores and skin tight clothing to get interest or a praise. Be stylish be captivating be spouse cloth. the way you carry your self determines the range of guy you'll entice. Be a QUEEN and a KINGS will pursue you. Be a foul B*TCH and a canines will chew you lol ijs. Now, i'm not declaring gown like a previous woman(no disrespect to the elderly, love yall to products) lol yet yeah guy, lead them to ask your self, not lust.
2016-11-30 21:38:16 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just seems to me that the women who do this don't understand that you can be classy and sexy at the same time.
I think a lot of it has to do with self-confidence and society measures. For years, centuries even, society has based a woman's worth on her beauty and not her character. Unfortunately, now so do women do the same thing; they base their self-worth and self-esteem off of what they think is socially better, but like you said, at the same time, they expect others to see the best of their character, even if that person doesn't know them, but they're showing something different; that is not showing their personality.
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2006-12-17 09:33:53 · answer #4 · answered by Miss P. Square Pinky Swear 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, these Ladies are wearing these clothes cause they like it!
They are NOT wearing it for the guys in the club.... well, I don't.
Whenever we ( me and my girls) go clubbing, we are there to dance and have fun... we couldn't care less obout the guys there! (most of them are scum! anyways).
I have never had a guy say anything rude to me... and me and my girls are always the centre of attention!!! cause we are so FREAKING Hot!!! and we LOVE it!
All I can say is... If other girls can't ROCK their outfits... then they're better off NOT wearing it ( try something more covered) lol!
2006-12-17 10:27:38 · answer #5 · answered by venom! 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
As you've noticed, you shouldn't make crude remarks to women, as they don't like it.
If you're interested in a woman, rudeness will get you nowhere. If you want a chance, pretend to be a human being -- you MIGHT get lucky.
2006-12-17 12:03:59 · answer #6 · answered by tehabwa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women are very mixed up. Today's culture puts a ridiculous emphasis on sex, especially feminine attraction. That leads to all the teenage pregnancies, which leads to abortion- the list goes on and on.
2006-12-17 09:18:22 · answer #7 · answered by pianoman.jeremy 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
They want to be noticed but on their own terms. If you think you will ever be able to understand the opposite sex, forget it. Women are complex and amazing....if you are male, you haven't a hope in hell of sussing us out. Sorry. Just look and enjoy...and keep your mouth shut unless you know her!
2006-12-17 09:17:32 · answer #8 · answered by super lucky 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Generally, it is unacceptable and unwanted for a stranger to approach or talk to you, no matter what the setting.
2006-12-17 09:25:31 · answer #9 · answered by reverenceofme 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
lol im not sure
2006-12-17 09:16:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋