I definetly do! Well, I am the kind of person that doesn't support gays and lesbians but also doesn't be mean to them or ridicule them. I don't care wat they do! it's not by buisness to get into their personal life but I really think it's more natural for a lesbian to be a lesbian that it is for guys to be gay. I just feel weird thinking about a guy on top of another guy! I think that is really grose but I guess watever suits them is fine with me, but I just think it seems a little weird. Doesn anyone else feel the same way about guys being stranger than girls wen it comes to gays and lesbians? I think this is because girls give the appearance of being emotional and friendly to eachother wen guys give off this macho tough personality. Do u all agree with this or not?
2006-12-17 09:10:14 · 14 answers · asked by P!ATD GIRL! Luvn Brendon Urie! 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
This is because of our culture. In ancient Greece and Rome it was far more favourable for men to be with other men, even those that were straight would often spend some years "experimenting" as we now call it. That was becasue they say men as more "divine" than women and a thing to be admired physically.
Today in Western Culture it is the reverse. We are bombarded by imagery, advertising and our culture to look at women and find women beautiful. It is known as the "male gaze" and it assumes that the looker is male or invites the viewer to be male for the purpose of interpreting the image. Think about the nubmer of times women are invited to look at another woman as a sexual object. From the mannequins in lingerie shops to a huge billboard advertising sun lotion to hair care products women look at other women not JUST as "i'd like to be her" but now also "she is beautiful". When men look at other men in advertising the way it is portrayed still usually only invites the first response. Plus women's responses and feelings are encouraged to be intimate towards women. While having house parties and reading Cosmo girls are learning to have pyjama parties and hug and kiss their female friends men are closeted into lone masculinity, male on male activities restricted to sport or drinking in a public sphere where contact is usually shunned.
Add all this up and our society finds two women acceptable because it features two of the sex it has designated to be looked AT. A woman that finds another woman attractive can still consume products that are advertised for men using normal advertising techniques, she consumes and participates the way our society expects: To lure and be attracted to women. Gay men on the other hand do not fit in this neatly, lots of feminine products feature women nad hence do not represent them, and the rest do not invite them to look at the male model as attractice, merely a role model.
2006-12-17 09:23:54 · answer #1 · answered by jleslie4585 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm not bi,however my girlfriend of 4 years is. We talk about this and we have reached the same conclusion.
A woman's body is so much more beautiful than a man's.It's the smoothness, the curves,the softness and the true love and nurturing that the female body presents.I agree with you.I love my girlfriend with all my heart and soul.She can make love with another woman.I understand the attraction,yes, the need.
2006-12-17 09:40:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always find it odd when straight people spend so much time and energy thinking about and visualizing gay sex.
Very odd. IMO.
To answer the question anyway, yes. I see lesbian sex as different than gay sex. The only reason is because the body parts are different, therefore the sex positions and options are different. They're of equal status/importance/interest to me though, but then again my porn/sex interests really aren't your business.
2006-12-17 09:15:15 · answer #3 · answered by BiyGuy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if it's not you business to get into their personal life why do u accept girls on girls vs boys on boys and why did you even ask the question? Not to sound mean but if you don't support us then why do you care what we think about your opinion? Of course its wierd to you because you're not gay so you can't really understand and sometimes I can't say that because youre not gay so you wouldn't understand. Because i know this lesbian who is super gay but can't stand the site of boys on boys ( she's wierd though, she has some personal issues with her). but to answer your question no i don't see it different at all we're gay.
2006-12-17 11:29:49 · answer #4 · answered by shay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a straight woman, I find two men together to be erotic, while two women together leave me cold. I know many other straight and bi women who are into guy on guy action, and a few are also into girl on girl. But most of us are more interested in the guys.
2006-12-17 09:56:57 · answer #5 · answered by Rose D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
kind of. im straight. i love girls dont get me wrong. yes i think its a lil strange when guys go on top of guys. if you do it then yes ur prob gay or bi but if u think i guess its not as bad as actually doing it (yuck guys are fcking gross and hairy) but yeah lesbians are cuter.
2006-12-17 09:15:03 · answer #6 · answered by mike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, it is all the same to me.. keep in mind that I am a opened mind person who is very openminded. However, I love to see to Emo Boys make out.. that is the best!
2006-12-17 09:20:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It relies upon on what you come across beautiful. all of us have specific forms of girls/adult adult males that we come across extra beautiful than others. i do no longer discover Jordan or Pamela Anderson distinctly yet that doesn't advise i'm by some potential retarded in my experience of what's distinctly. adult adult males are basically extra focussed on the glaring sexual attributes than women folk i think of. that's why you will see gruesome adult adult males with pleasing women folk yet no longer any incorrect way around...
2016-10-05 10:35:22 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I spend NO time thinking about straight sex and don't understand why straights would think about gay sex. I mean, why?
But, yes, guy on guy is much much hotter! Especially if they kiss!
2006-12-17 11:21:02 · answer #9 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, being heterosexually-inclined bi, I find girl-on-girl more.. Attractive as it were. But I don't think it's any more natural, nor do I think it's gross for there to be guy-on-guy. I just don't find it attractive. It's my problem, not theirs.
2006-12-17 09:28:31 · answer #10 · answered by Lilium 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋