help me! im no man whore
2006-12-17 08:04:46 · 10 answers · asked by jessica2405 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am one. I do go out dressed in public and most people know I am a man after a bit. But they are for the most part very accepting. You should not feel so insulted. I have very little objection and many people think it is cool. I meet more ladies to date when I am dressed female than when dressed male. They find it interesting for some reason.
2006-12-19 14:45:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold it! You're mixing terms here.
A transvestite is a person who dresses in the opposite sexes clothing. In the US examples would be a man wearing a skirt, panties, bra, blouse, women's makeup etc...
A male (or man) whore traditionally depicts a person that sells his body to other people for sex. A looser term would be someone who has a great deal of sex with anyone walking around for free.
If you are wearing women's clothing or makeup then yes, you're a transvestite! It does not necessarily make you a homosexual however, some homosexuals are known to wear women's clothing. Some heterosexual males also participate in this lifestyle.
2006-12-17 08:40:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, why do people call you that? Secondly, people are going to say things that insult you no matter what. You know what you are and that is all that matters. Of course, you know you could sue them for slander.
2006-12-17 08:08:37 · answer #3 · answered by Dyan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first don't change for other people's satisfaction.
do it cause you want to look better, not to please the other ppl.
i get called that.
it's hellof annoying.
cause i'm a girl that wears T-shirts and sweatshirts and like them. i don't give a f**k.
i've been doing it for such a long time, but have been switching to girl clothes for my own satisfaction.
if you want, wear guy clothes like T-shirts with athletics, jeans that aren't skin tight, big sweatshirts, striped guy shirt, a dress shirts for guys, avoid colors such as pink and purple. wear tennis shoes or nikes or jordans or vans something like that.
2006-12-17 08:12:08 · answer #4 · answered by Leilani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there,
That is awful to hear and it sounds to me that it is your friends who are the problem and nothing to do with you at all. They are bullies and these kinds of people are saying these things to you so that you will give them a reaction to their comments.
They are just unable to accept themselves and why they need to put you down and give you a complex about yourself for something you are not. I went through a stage at work when people started calling me gay because I didn't have a boyfriend and yet, I am and always will be straight and into men and have never been gay!. I am a woman by the way.
Bullies like to say untrue things as a way of making you think that there is something wrong with you and there isn't at all so please don't listen to their pathetic words, they are saying them because they themselves are unhappy and are taking their own misery out on you. It is what is called a 'projection' - people putting their own inferiority complex onto you and nothing more than this. I ended up leaving my job because of these types of people who are dysfunctional and unhappy.
I would do something to get away from them no matter if it means losing their friendship because if they were your friends then they wouldn't be saying these terrible and untrue things. I suspect, because you are a kind and decent and friendly person, they are jealous of you and the reason why they bully you like this , but you shouldn't change because of them. If everyone were like your friends then the world would be an intolerable place for many and why it is fantastic that there are nice and kind people around like you and me.
In work places, bullying is taken seriously and so if they acted like that, they would soon find that they would be in some serious trouble for it, so they are going to have to grow up very fast and learn that they can't get away with it. It is ugly behaviour and so, it makes them ugly for doing it. I know this isn't an easy thing to go through, but getting away from them if you can, would be the best thing you can do but if you can't, then confront them with it and tell them how it makes you feel and hopefully they will stop, but honestly, no one should have to go through this and they are unhealthy people.
It is very insulting to be called something you are not and they are pathetic bullies. I really feel bad for you because I know how it feels to go through what you are and I too was bullied by two older women in their fifties at work who accussed me of all kinds and called me terrible names and began to start beleiving in what they were saying, but what they were doing was projecting their own insecurities onto me because I was never those things they would call me. They were very jealous of me because I am very attractive and educated and they were not. I used to work on the trains and I had a good job - I left because they pushed me out and I tried to report them to the agency but who did not want to deal with the problem despite me telling them what their staff were doing to me.
If you are at school, report them, if you are at work, also report them because they cannot be allowed to get away with this sort of behaviour that is very destructive and abusive. They will respect you more for confronting them about it even if this is not going to change them as people, they need to know that this is not the right way to behave and they should keep their thoughts to themselves.
Get shot of them and start to like yourself again and get some self-esteem back by getting away from unhealthy people. I am sure that they will do this to someone else because bullies always move on to their next targets and soon get caught out anyway. I would try and pluck up the courage to get yourself away from them and to spend your time and life with people who like you no matter what. Not everyone out there are like these people and you will find other friends and who will treat you much bettter and how you deserve to be treated.
You sound like a great person and it is sad that people want to ruin the chance of having a good friendship with you but that is their loss because they will only make friends with nasty trash. You deserve much better so get yourself out there and start making some decent friends.
Have a good christmas and don't let anyone ruin that at least. Also, start making some new year plans to change the people who are in your life who don't need to be. There is a website called bullying@.org.uk, this will give you some useful inforamtion on bullying behaviour and what to do about it, but please don't let this continue any longer because this is affecting your life and you should not have to go through life being made to feel this way .
I know that you are not a transvestite because they are open and admitting to it and even if you were one (you are not) but, even if you were, this is no cause for anyone to bully you!
2006-12-17 08:37:47 · answer #5 · answered by Shikira-trudi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop acting like one, j/k ....who gives a f*ck, don't take it in
F*ck em Alll
2006-12-17 08:09:18 · answer #6 · answered by HEYGUY 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i say try to work it out but if that dont work then fight for your rights to be what you want to be with out people talking about it
2006-12-17 08:08:36 · answer #7 · answered by cssndrgary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not funny
2006-12-17 08:06:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop wearing women's clothing.
2006-12-17 08:07:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
a good makeover?
2006-12-17 08:07:09 · answer #10 · answered by Bikini bandit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋