I have a 3 month old. people say that she is spoiled and has me wrapped around her lil finger. I say she is loved. to me to spoil a child is to give them what ever they want when ever they want it, and not teaching them consequences for there actions and to know the difference in what they want and what they need. I let her cry and play alone and not hold her constantly, but I love her alot too, and from what I am told I cannot get all her kisses.
Is she loved or spoiled?
2006-12-17 07:51:42 · 16 answers · asked by spcresha 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
you should never spoiled a kid you should give her love.. you need to let her cry unless she wanted to eat.. but if she wanted to be pick up and get attention just leave her.. Give her love then spoiled... if it your like princess
There part where you wanted to spoiled and there part where you wanted to love her.. spoiled is not good thing for girl.. because then when she grow up she would wanted a lot of toys and a lot of things and start to act up when she out...
Just see how kids now.. not all kids sit in restaurant and eat.. mostly they ran around the places... and some parents let them do that... i would not if i were out with my kids.. my parents were strict with me when i was growing up
2006-12-17 08:07:35 · answer #1 · answered by babyg 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would tell you not to worry about what people tell you, you more than anyone knows the needs for your baby, Babies that are 3 months old cannot be spoiled. They need as much love as they can get. So keep it up, it sounds like you are doing a great job. Don't let anyone tell you, you are a bad parent, everyone has there own unique way of parenting
2006-12-17 08:14:03 · answer #2 · answered by ERIKA L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
An old lady once told me, that you can't spoil a baby! This is what they need, (and you need too).
To 3 month olds, crying or being fussy is the only way they can communicate. If you ignore those, your teaching her that her needs may or may not be met.
You'll have more than enough time in the future to deal with discipline. Enjoy this short time you have with the little one!
2006-12-17 07:57:42 · answer #3 · answered by mosdesertrose 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has different idea's of what is best and what should and shouldn't be done. I have a 2year old and she has started coming up to me and say"i love you mummy" i tell her I love her too. My mum told me that I shouldn't be encouraging her to say it... Why?? I'm 30 and I can never, in my whole live recall either of my parents telling me they love me. You are a mother and you are responsible for the up bringing of your daughter, if there were rules we had to follow of do's and don'ts what a boring world this would be. You can love and spoil your children, we all have a line which we do not cross, you seem to have sensible morals. If everyone was bought up the same where would be get our individual personalities from?!
2006-12-17 08:01:59 · answer #4 · answered by SARAH S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not possible to spoil a 3-month-old. If they cry, they need something. She is still learning that you will be there if she needs you, so you should be very attentive. A baby that young does not cry to manipulate so I'd say loved. Enjoy being able to love her all you want now. As she turns into a whiny toddler and distant teenager you'll miss these days.
2006-12-17 07:54:43 · answer #5 · answered by rainchaser77 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
At this point, she's loved. You can't really spoil a baby in the first few months--in fact, studies have shown that physical contact during this time is actually beneficial to everything from baby's mental and emotional development to baby's physical health. It wouldn't hurt to get her on a routine that's more beneficial to you, but I don't think you're spoiling her.
2006-12-17 09:08:49 · answer #6 · answered by shoujomaniac101 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do people tell you not to spoil your child? You are a parent, that is what you are supposed to do. Hug your child as much as you want. She is 3 months, tell them to go have their own child to with hold love from.
2006-12-17 07:56:46 · answer #7 · answered by poisonette 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cannot spoil a three month old. Hold her more and quit letting her cry.
2006-12-17 09:07:47 · answer #8 · answered by kimmp1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you CANNOT spoil a 3 month old baby. they are completely helpless beings and rely on you for their complete security. spoiling is when you have a whiny toddler (and trust me they all get that way lol) and you give them everything they want and let them walk all over you. infants cant be spoiled, IMO.
2006-12-17 07:54:39 · answer #9 · answered by Mina222 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She's loved. You can't spoil and 3 month old. She's still learning who you are and learning to trust you.
2006-12-17 10:25:57 · answer #10 · answered by Kennedy & Kevin's mommy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋