2006-12-17 07:37:01 · 11 answers · asked by twiggy 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
think is what you really want to do and if so sit them down in a comfortable setting and bring up a conversation and then be like i been haveing this feeling and then come out and tell them your bi BUT DONT LET THEM FIND OUT ON THERE OWN that would hurt them more it should come from you not from some one else
2006-12-17 08:44:02 · answer #1 · answered by CiCi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't tell them if I were you.If they are the kind of parents that would freak out about it, isn't it just better to leave it alone? If/when you get a partner, then you will have to bring it up (if it's a she), but the whole bi thing implies not settleing down. I would just keep my mouth shut.
2006-12-17 17:30:52 · answer #2 · answered by Charity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look if they dont ask dont tell .. if you develop a realionship with another female and it goes beyound the just being bi .. then i would tell them..my daughter is bi and with her first cousin // i would rather not have known although i supectted it since they were small children..dont tell them unless your going gay full time then they need to know.. and yes i love my daughter and i am there for her and i wont turn my back on her,, but sadly not all parents are like that..
2006-12-17 16:18:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a nice quiet moment and tell ur parents that you have something important to tell them....and then break the news...in my case i only told my mom because i knew she would be more understanding than my father. If you have a strong relationship with ur parents, this news should not affect anything
2006-12-17 15:43:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are underage, and you feel it might be harmful to them, or your relationship with them. I would suggest not telling them about it until you are older and in a position where it won't matter how they react about it.
However if you are of age, I would first ask what you think their reaction to it would be. If you KNEW they would act negatively.. then I would probably wait again, until you were in a position where there reaction to it would not make any affect on your life. However if you think they will welcome you, or you're unsure, then you might as well just talk to them about it..
2006-12-17 15:43:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just say mom I sorta like girls noooo im not a lesbian im slighly bi no im not gonna run and tell the world and im not gonna tell the fam i juss wanted you 2 kno because i love you and that part of my life dosent have to be discussed and if im seeinf a girl im not gonna bring her around you I still like guys and im still gonna get married and have kids it isnt a big deal ..
2006-12-17 15:46:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all don't make it a big deal if you can try not to cry i know this maybe hard. I have found that if you make it a big deal then they will blow it out of proportion. Also be prepared for the questions that they will have.
good luck
peace.
2006-12-17 19:32:09 · answer #7 · answered by shay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why bring it up? Heck, do you want to know the intimate details of their lives? They don't want to know yours either.
2006-12-17 17:55:11 · answer #8 · answered by Brian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them. If they love you they will understand and if not then go on being who you are anyways.
2006-12-17 15:43:50 · answer #9 · answered by Stephie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why do you feel you have to come out to them?
2006-12-17 15:39:23 · answer #10 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋