I have been with my boyfriend for several years, and have always been faithful (although he cheated on me once a year or so ago by having a one night stand).
Recently I was chatting to a guy online, I had no intention to flirt or anything like that, just have a friendly chat, but within a day we were completely intensely smitten (I know how weird and stupid that sounds) It's been two weeks now, and we're talking every day on the phone for hours, or on msn. We tell each other that we love each other, and the whole situation's getting realy intense. we can't stop thinking about each other..he has a girlfriend, and we haven't told our partners about what we've been doing. What i'm asking is, is this wrong? because it doesn't feel wrong..we haven't arranged to meet or anything. What should I do?
2006-12-17 07:26:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
dump your boyfriend
2006-12-17 07:37:07 · answer #1 · answered by BeachBum 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Before the internet came along, money was the biggest cause for divorce and breakups. Can you guess what the biggest cause is today? That's right. The internet.
I believe it's wrong because it's deceptive. Your boyfriend thinks all is well and doesn't know what you're doing.
You should decide to either break up with him and try this new guy or mend the current relationship.
That's the right thing to do.
2006-12-17 07:34:11 · answer #2 · answered by Yea Yea 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if you found out that your bf had met someone on line that he loved and he kept the relationship going and you in the dark.
Of course it's wrong.
You're deceiving him. If you don't love him, you need to let him know it's over so he can move on. If you do, then stop betraying him by being in love with someone else and continuing the relationship.
You didn't really need us to tell you this, did you?
2006-12-17 10:56:56 · answer #3 · answered by tehabwa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Infatuation is such a strong impulse that it cuts out everything else including common sense, you really must take into account the feelings of the others involved and how much they are going to suffer from both your actions,but I guess that you will both carry on regardless with this,but if the day comes that you are betrayed then you will feel the pain yourself.
2006-12-17 07:32:12 · answer #4 · answered by Sentinel 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You may not be unfaithful in the physical sense, but you are still being unfaithful. Either drop your real life beau or your internet one. Keep in mind though, if you dump your real life boyfriend, what makes you think the guy online is going to do the same to his girlfriend??
2006-12-17 07:34:05 · answer #5 · answered by castle h 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Finish with your boyfriend and stop talking to this STRANGER, this doesn't feel wrong because you know he cheated on you and you think your getting your revenge, this man could be a murderer who is grooming you to meet you and throttle you. You don't know who this person is. You obviously do not trust or love your boyfriend anymore finish it, be single, sort your self out meet someone knew who you can get to know in the flesh. THIS IS DANGEROUS AND CRAZY. Good luck
2006-12-17 07:36:43 · answer #6 · answered by Smoochy Poochy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your heading straight into real trouble and your asking are you getting yourself into a situation well you sound naive but I'm not being rude to you but for gods sake I'm sure you must know your cheating and the consequence could be dramatic especially if your B/f has a temper
2006-12-17 07:39:44 · answer #7 · answered by srracvuee 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Give it up before it DOES lead to a meeting. It's too close to Christmas for heartache.
2006-12-17 07:31:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
yes its wrong. you know it is wrong as you have asked us.
but its also wrong that you let your partner cheat. so maybe he will be ok when he finds out what you are upto.
2006-12-17 07:30:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break up with your currant BF. It's not fair to him. If not, cool it with the online romance.
2006-12-17 07:30:56 · answer #10 · answered by Mt ~^^~~^^~ 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Give it up now, you are being unfaithful even though not in person.
2006-12-17 07:29:44 · answer #11 · answered by Cherry 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋