I am 19, he is around 40.It has been 2 weeks since i started thinking about him all the time, i really dont feel able to study anymore.I like his subject ,there are only a few people that like the subject and actually listen to him,most of them dont even come to his lectures,because they dont have to.There are usually only about 20 people in the lecture hall, but only 4-5 listen to him.I always sit at the same place and listen to him carefully.Whenever he looks at the audience,he looks at me, in the eyes.He doesnt look the others in the eyes so often.We have that subject once a week and i have been to all his lectures since the beginning of semester.It all started a few weeks ago, Last week when he entered the room, he looked towards the place where i always sit and of course i was there.The very first time i saw him i imeddiately liked him,i think we have similar personalities,but i didnt think i`d feel this way.He isnt married.There are only 5 lectures left with him.what should i do?
2006-12-17 07:15:35 · 4 answers · asked by faro 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
If you want to make a good impression on him, pull yourself together and study.
What you are feeling is infatuation. It is normal, but don't give it more importance than it really has.
At 40, your professor knows that there is more to life than infatuation. If he were to date you, it would not be as an equal. Imagine yourself dating a 12-year-old. He might be a wonderful kid, but he's not at your level. It's the same with you and your professor.
He's probably impressed that you are interested in this subject. Don't blow it.
2006-12-17 07:28:45 · answer #1 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should continue to pay attention in class, and quit fantasizing about him. If this professor acts on the childish fantasies you are concoting, he will quite likely lose his job, and do you want to be responsible for that?
2006-12-17 07:24:12 · answer #2 · answered by ahorn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have your same problem. I can't really give you a solid answer, but I can talk you through it. Feel free to email me whenever.
2006-12-17 23:19:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know its tough but put him out of your mind or you may initiate a fatal incident for both of you!!!
2006-12-17 07:28:31 · answer #4 · answered by Billy Butthead 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋