please see add'l details for more information on the question.
2006-12-17 06:58:55 · 7 answers · asked by Makoa 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Why is it that his mom says she is ok with us having sex because I was raped in the past??(not by her son, someone else) She says she's accepting of us being together alone b/c of this.Does she think I won't have sex with her son b/c of my past?? Does she think he will make me have sex before i am ready and then i'll break up with him??
WHY does she think my past has anything to do with this??
2006-12-17 06:59:32 · update #1
What do you think she means by it??
2006-12-17 07:01:53 · update #2
Should I be worried about sleeping with him b/c I was raped??
We have been together for three years.
2006-12-17 07:04:07 · update #3
Ask her. I don't see why it would matter. I hope you are using birth control AND condoms. I guess she'd rather acknowledge what is going on and have the honesty than to bury her head in the sand and pretend her baby won't have sex. Its reality that some kids do and some don't. Wouldn't you rather have his mom treating you more like an adult? At least you both can talk to her about it!
2006-12-17 07:05:40 · answer #1 · answered by Velken 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you need to do is call a shrink and get some help and STOP writing questions about this stuff if you need to talk to someone about being raped thats fine but stop with the b/f and his mom crap thats all you ever ask about is sex and you being raped you know if you were raped im srry and you need to get some help if not then stop being so insisitive to the people on here who may have been raped for real.. before you give me a thumbs down people read her other questions and you will see what i mean
2006-12-17 17:56:06 · answer #2 · answered by crazyme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds real confusing. For your well being and health sake I would get away from these people as fast as I could.
It just doesn't sound right and normal the behavior you are describing about these peoples ideas and actions.
You deserve BETTER. See the trap you are getting into.
2006-12-17 15:07:09 · answer #3 · answered by HowFuzzyWuzee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm..thats a strange reason!
your past should not have anything to do with her decision
however your boyfriend should be extra carefull when you do have sex
2006-12-17 15:02:14 · answer #4 · answered by tirsh61350 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would either ask her strraight up and i don't think it has nothing to do with your past
2006-12-17 15:08:07 · answer #5 · answered by megan_trigg2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thanks for th points and i think your past has nothing to do with it and is not okn o have sex s young
2006-12-17 15:02:29 · answer #6 · answered by user 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you just ask her?
2006-12-17 15:01:10 · answer #7 · answered by jc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋