High School sweetheart is married to a terminally ill man and wants to get back together with me. Says she needs my support and later be her husband.
2006-12-17 06:27:42 · 18 answers · asked by Captain Kirk 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
be there for her for support and nothing else.
she will be extremely confused and emotional.
be her friend in this difficult time then if anything comes of the friendship later on in life well so be it
2006-12-17 06:31:27 · answer #1 · answered by mowgligurl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. RUN if you have to. How on earth could you live with your conscience if you are cheating with the wife of a terminally ill man??? If you do...you will come back as a foot fungus in your next life. You can be supportive without being her lover. Later is later.
2006-12-17 06:32:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her husband Is not even dead yet,she could be experianceing being lonely and scared right now wich Is normal but It Is not right to plan ahead right now and she should be faithful to her husband.
If you get married to her and you were In her husbands shoes sick,going to die how would you feel If she was looking at another man and righting you off.
I would back off and be a friend nothing else,she Is still married I would honor her mariage and her husband first and think,Love stands no matter what remember In sickness and In heath till death does us part.
2006-12-17 06:36:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to tell you like it looks to me...I am hopefully wrong...She is married to a man that is TERMINALLY ILL and she wants TO CHEAT on him!!! What the heck is up with that? Is he rich? cause it sounds like a money thing...she's waiting for that insurance check to come in but doesn't want to be faithful due to her own physical needs...What I would do? EHH...just be a good friend to both of them and buy her a vibrator...Now you sit back and stay in touch because you want to see how this ends for her...when he dies if she comes to you all rich and high maintenance looking...well make her sign a prenup!!!! Other than that...ENJOY the RIDE cause you are going to be part of it!
2006-12-17 06:34:56 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Terminally ill is not dysfunctional. This woman should be too occupied with her husband, to give another man a 2nd thought. Whew Captain, PLEASE give this MUCH deliberation. And do NOT under any circumstance, jump into this situation!
She's made all sorts of plans now hasnt she???
2006-12-17 06:47:49 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her husband's terminal illness does not a dysfunctional marriage make...sounds like she can't handle it and wants to find someone to dump on!
2006-12-17 06:30:50 · answer #6 · answered by i_love_my_mp 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Captain I'd stay away from a woman who has to start finding another man before the body of the last is even cold.
2006-12-17 06:30:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to get involved with a woman who treats a husband like that in his greatest time in need. Think about if you end up in that situation.
2006-12-17 06:49:19 · answer #8 · answered by CA DIVA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is the question hun...do you need to be told what to do or what not to do? honestly if he is terminally ill she should stick it out with him until his time is up and just be friends with you till then. cheating would be out of the question, it just wouldn't be fair to her husband. just be there for her if you love her you can do that. when she is ready to leave him or until he dies you should be just friends. will also help your relationship later on when you are together. good luck and happy holidays=)
2006-12-17 06:31:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you're making excuses on your brother. human beings have survived worse issues, and it did no longer inevitably reason them to alcohol addictions. Who cares if the ex spouse (thrice over) is remarrying and to whom- Your brother desires severe therapy with a view to confirm why he's making his own life alternatives. till he realizes why he's finding out on shitty companions, he will proceed the comparable development. understand? supply up judging others and make your self clever in this occasion - motivate your brother to circulate on and heal.
2016-10-15 03:14:05 · answer #10 · answered by cutburth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋