my ex boyfriend wants us to be secret email buds, he says his wife doesn't know about his yahoo account and he wants to stay in touch with me, i am not comfortable with that, why isn't he satisfied with his now wife? maybe they are on the rocks?
2006-12-17 06:25:53 · 15 answers · asked by jibjab1978 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I hope they are on the rocks because this is the ***** he left me for, and he pretends they are so perfect, i swear i would never take him back, just want to see him suffer.
2006-12-17 06:31:49 · update #1
Honestly, your best revenge would be to not stay in contact with him at all.
If he left you for her, and now is trying to have the emotional support from you and her as his unknowing loving wife at home, stop it. He probably talks to several other woman besides you on that account anyway.
He chose her. If you choose to continue to talk to him, then you are giving him the message that it is okay just to use you when he wants.
I know from experience it is hard to do, but it will make you feel a lot better about yourself in the long run.
Hope this helps.
2006-12-17 06:36:28 · answer #1 · answered by creativefisher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They may be on the rocks, or maybe he's hoping to get "some on the side" with you. There is nothing good that will come out of this "secret" stuff. My advice to you is to tell him no. He's had his chance with you and he blew it. There is really no reason why you even need to be his friend. If you weren't good enough for him then, you're not good enough for him now. Best of luck to you...
2006-12-17 06:42:34 · answer #2 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's a real winner. If you are having doubts then you shouldn't do it. That's your conscience speaking to you. Also, sounds like a part of you hopes they are on the rocks..One possibility.. his marriage could be perfectly fine and he's just a dog...
Added: Ok so now it's out of SPITE. That's not a lovely color on anyone. I think the best revenge is just living well. Forget him.
2006-12-17 06:29:42 · answer #3 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it cuz once the secret comes to the light than he will blame u for the foolish act that he have made. Been there done that. Would want someone do that to you? (That is how u have to think about it)
2006-12-17 06:31:11 · answer #4 · answered by dagirl10149 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You pretty much know the answer, right. It's never as complicated as it seems. My ex told me THE EXACT SAME THING! Why not ask yourself how you would feel if you were the wife?
2006-12-17 06:29:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank your lucky stars you are not the one married to him. Sounds like he is a cheater in all areas. Don't do it. I know you want to. But because of the knowledge you have of him being married you would be just as guilty as him for doing it.
2006-12-17 06:29:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea may be or he wants to cheat on his wife with you. either way he doesn't want his wife to know about you lol.
2006-12-17 06:32:18 · answer #7 · answered by little_bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not comfy with it dont do it. Seems though that you are getting the satisfaction you need though.
2006-12-17 06:48:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds dodgy!stay well away from him!sounds like a cheating fool!
2006-12-17 06:30:25 · answer #9 · answered by olliemort 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-17 06:34:08 · answer #10 · answered by mr johnson 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋