Ouch, I was at the christmas party with my co-workers and I started to discuss about computers with my co-worker's boyfriend. Another co-worker, hot blonde, said that she knew I was a nerd. I was a bit shocked and she continued that she knew it from "my face". Wtf?
The other co-worker agreed but they tried to comfort that it's not such a bad thing nowadays lol.
Ok, I don't have glasses and I don't think I'm that ugly, I did have acne and I still get some pimples but it's mostly ok. I'm a bit chubby (not fat though, normal weight still). I dress quite fashionably too.
Is it because I have my skin is not that good (some acne scars etc.)? How can I improve my skin? I wash it everyday and use lotion.
I guess I need to lose weight too? Start working out?
2006-12-17 06:18:05 · 17 answers · asked by bug m 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Don't waste you time or energy on what some blonde said, she's probally jealous cause you actually know something
2006-12-17 06:31:11 · answer #1 · answered by Kitty Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm...let me get this clear first though..
are you a guy or a girl? cuz you don't have a picture so I don't know.
Anyways...just because someone said something doesn't mean you have to feel bad about it cuz you live for yourself not those idiots.
Do you have oily or dry skin? Because if you have acne problems, I think you have oily skin and people with oily skin will only worsen the acne problem by putting on lotion (unless you mean those medical lotions?)
ONe great product for acne that I use (OMG...it totaly works GREAT) is Loreal's: ACNE RESPONSE Daily Adult Acne Regimen.
And another thing. This might not have a LOT to do with what you are trying to ask but guess what? I was once called a dork for having good grades by a friend, and he MEANT it when he said it even though we were friends. It's ok, OK? I told him that I'm not gonna change because of what he said and I lived on with my life. I dress in sweats if I want or I could dress up. It's just MY OWN life, and you should live yours to satisfy yourself too.
Plus, there are lots of people that disagree with that friend of mine about me being a dork, my other friends find me creative and fun...so yeah, it's just different perspectives for different people.
2006-12-17 06:27:32 · answer #2 · answered by kawaii 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The comment probably had less to do about you looks than the nature of your conversation, the computer focused convo probably made her think uh oh i can't talk to these people they are in nerd mode, I need to switch the conversation in order to bring my self in to this.
And don't let anyone tell you nerds look a certain way, that only came from our stereotypes of saved by the bell and Steve Urkel, Being a nerd is a state of mind a culture, not a look or a fashion sense ie geek chic they are all posers
2006-12-17 06:30:54 · answer #3 · answered by Acappella S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, what you need to do is stop listening to what other people think of you. You can't be serious! The b***h who said that to you was just rude. She probably just isn't as knowledgeable as you about this. Or maybe she felt threatened about the fact that you were talking about someone elses boyfriend. People are weird. Either way, what I think they really meant by that is that you look smart. They just said it in b***h code. They are probably more comfortable in a social setting than you are and are able to talk about things other than work or computers. It's not that easy for everyone. If you are going to change anything, it's your attitude you need to change. Stop letting the nasty things other people say about you make you feel so bad and so quick to change. That hot blond probably has bad breath too. Merry X-Mas!
2006-12-17 06:29:02 · answer #4 · answered by Goddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax! They are just trying to be part of the conversation. Hot blonde doesn't understand what you're talking about so she said something to get attention. She dresses like that because she wants to always be the CENTER of attention. She did it to be mean. You could have said, "I'm not a nerd, but, since you're Blonde, I'll give you a dumb pass,"
Most girls like smart guys. The ones that don't will be divorced with 3 kids and middle aged spread in 5 years anyway.
Next time they say you're a nerd, say, "Thanks! I'd rather be a nerd than an idiot!" Then smile and ignore them.
2006-12-17 06:28:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
" hot blondes" opinion is not worth anything.. she has a conceit problem, why let people like that worry you, look for a girl with some brains, I bet you are a great guy. Acne does not stop girls being attracted to you. Nothing wrong with getting a bit of exercise though, just cos it is good for you.
2006-12-17 06:24:59 · answer #6 · answered by Ma C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 10:05:11 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think that your skin is the problem, then try drawing attention away from it by getting a really nice hair cut. Also perhaps the type of product your using isnt suitable for your skin, try changing brands and things may turn out alot better
2006-12-17 06:28:13 · answer #8 · answered by sparkles_x 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't let some blonde bimbo get you down. Shes just a coworker and was probably just kidding. I wouldn't look too much into it if i were you.
2006-12-17 06:22:54 · answer #9 · answered by Claire t 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if ur acne bothers U try something like proactiv but if u feel comfortable w/ur weight and eat healthy don't do anything except try walking more
2006-12-17 06:22:25 · answer #10 · answered by una ragazza siciliana 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋