i can feel the jealousy from my friend from the way she talks to me ,the problem is that we are friends since long time ago ,so how should i react ?
2006-12-17 06:05:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if you cherish the friendship, ignore it and dont mention it to her... she will be mad if you ask her why shes jealous of you, because of course she will deny it. What you can do to help is try to boost her own self esteem, so she wont feel so bad about herself. Maybe take her shopping, tell her her hair looks cute, share makeup tips with her, set her up with a cute guy, etc. She should grow out of the jealousy stage soon.
2006-12-17 06:09:30 · answer #1 · answered by idbangrobertplant 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she doesn't feel as pretty as she thinks you are, or as confident. Why don't you have a fun day with her and suggest her letting you do her hair and make up. Or maybe take her shopping and buy her a pretty outfit or something. Try to build her confidence in herself. Re-assure her by telling her that you really value her friendship and you love the times ya'll have together. Sometimes people go through hard times and they just need to know that someone out there really does care about them. You are a great friend for being concerned with her jealousy. I think she probably just needs a little more attention for right now. Good luck.
2006-12-17 06:10:39 · answer #2 · answered by Corona 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me to!!! My friend and I have been friends 30+ years... I have prospered and she is poor... I feel guilty sometimes but I worked hard to be where I am now... she on the other hand has made many mistakes that put her where she is now and its not my fault... we recently got into a little spat and one of the things she though up in my face was my money... I can't help that... I can't figure her out sometimes... It sad that the closeness we once had is gone because I can't talk about my life because it may remind her of my success... I have to mainly allow the conversations dwell on her life because she sure doesn't want to hear sbout mine for it is only a reminder of her failures... Jealousy can break up the best of ffriendship... the only thing you can do is keep what she is jealous of out of your friendship... I hope this all made sence and good luck!!!
2006-12-17 06:17:01 · answer #3 · answered by Sandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing you can't do is overeact to it. She has some issues that she needs to figure out for herself. When you're around her try not to brag about naything or talk about many good things that are going on in your life. Just leave her alone for now. if it gets to be a real issue with your friendship make sure that you let her know (with gentle words).
2006-12-17 06:10:41 · answer #4 · answered by ~Stephie~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People act like that because they are insecure people themselves. In the moment of jealousy, tell her or ask her why she isn't congratulating you for instance. Otherwise just learn to ignore her jealous remarks/actions.
http://www.relationship-affairs.com/Friendship.html
2006-12-17 06:09:18 · answer #5 · answered by Sofia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her without delay up the form you sense approximately her narcissistic strategies. I even have executed this previously, I even have in many situations occurring many human beings in simple terms like her, and that they are very annoying. I call them the "one extra useful" human beings. no rely what you have, theirs is often extra useful, and what ever tale you have, theirs is often extra useful. they only would desire to be placed back in actuality, and it will circulate an prolonged way in making them understand the way annoying they are literally, whilst it comes from a chum. If she hates you after, then she became on no account particularly your chum first of all, in simple terms somebody that she ought to sense extra advantageous too.
2016-10-15 03:12:00 · answer #6 · answered by cutburth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have one and I often go off somewhere and be alone to myself or simply give him space to talk to hisself or think about what's happening and that he's going to lose me as a friend if he keeps acting the way he does...
2006-12-17 06:08:30 · answer #7 · answered by mack9930317 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have one of those. the best thing to do is to boost her self-esteem, specifically when she does things that promote a separate interest or something that is not influenced by you.
good luck
2006-12-17 06:12:27 · answer #8 · answered by puffenstuffsrevenge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she feels that u feel u r better than her.
2006-12-17 06:33:11 · answer #9 · answered by dagirl10149 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send her down the road
2006-12-17 06:09:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋