Hum... I have a BI cousin, she dont want nobody to know about it. But i think she should tell her parents after all she has AIDS and she's only 15. What should she do????
2006-12-17 05:45:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
At 15 she may be only exploring her sexuality and not sure what her preference is right now,so I don't really think if she is bisexual it is that important right now. However, I agree with others the main thing is to take care of her health at this point.
I am very skeptical of her aids story. She may be seeking attention with both the bisexuality and Aids story. She is a minor and doctors have an obligation to make sure her parents and those involved with her sexually are told of her diagnosis if it is true. Whether it is HIV or Aids.
I would love and support her, but have her show you proof of the Aids, then let her know this is not something you can conceal from her parents and that you will tell YOUR parents , not hers, then hopefully the adult family members can take care of this potentially life threatening situation. .
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2006-12-17 06:21:56 · answer #1 · answered by cookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has AIDS, that is absolutely something her parents need to know, since I'm assuming at 15, she is still very dependent. If they know, then she can be assured better protection, rather then none at all. Specialists should be consulted so that she doesn't end up in serious trouble. If she doesn't want people to know she is bisexual, she could tell them it was merely a male partner or what not, if that would be better, but whatever the case it would be important to tell her parents about her AIDS.
2006-12-17 05:50:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well whoever she feels more comfortable with she should talk to and start out just by bieng calm-acting like it really is no big deal and start just by te;ling taht she has a problem or whatever the kind of situation it is and then just that she doesnt want anybody to get mad and for it to be a secret adn then go ahead and tell
If her parents yell or anything like that she can jsut say she was sorry because she thougth it was the right thing to do instead of keeping it a secret
Hope it works out ok!
2006-12-17 05:56:41 · answer #3 · answered by Raina F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you mean HIV? because if she has full blown AIDS they will find out pretty soon anyway. I dont think the fact that shes bi really matters if shes HIV positive, her parents have bigger things to worry about. They have to know she has this disease ASAP or shes going to die.
2006-12-17 05:48:50 · answer #4 · answered by idbangrobertplant 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know for certain that she has aids? If you do, then tell her to let her parents know immediately or tell them yourself. Being bi is secondary and unimportant.
2006-12-17 05:49:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to know that her parents are the most understanding people that she will ever know. They need to know things like that.
2006-12-17 06:37:37 · answer #6 · answered by dagirl10149 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST, OF ALL SHE NEED TO FACE REALITY..
THEN FACE UP TO HER MISTAKE.......SHE SHOULD COME CLEAN... AND IF YOU WERE A TRUE FRIEND YOU WILL MAKE HER COME FORWARD AND CONFESS. IF NOT YOU NEED TO TELL THEM... SO THEY WILL BE ABLE TO HANDLE THIS IN A MORE CIVILISE MANNER....
2006-12-17 05:55:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋