i mean i have this one friend i almost hate but she thinks we're best friends. and it isnt like i cant be friends with her anymore because i am like her only friend and i feel obligated. also she knows all my secrets and stuff. HELP!!!!!!!!
2006-12-17 05:26:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yes, i have some annoying friends. just have to forgive them
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2006-12-17 05:27:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok this situation happends alot of the time. Don't sweat it, she'll soon realize that there are other people she can best friends to be with other than just you. less time will be spent with you. But there's also theres this to think about, would you rather have her around less as a friend or less around as an enemy? disconnecting her is a goal I understand, but the way you handle it is gonna be risky. She think's your her bestfriend so showing her that your not is something she's gotta find out for herself. Being honest it a good way of do'n it, however if she's ultra sensitive then she'll end up being broken hearted, and might result in emo. don't lie to her either, like saying "Ummmm I'm kinda busy, I have something to do" do'n so will make her an enemy of your's. the only thing I can think of is hanging out with people with her. so that she'd hang out with others and find more bestfriends to talk to, to hang with, to tell problems to.
2006-12-17 05:49:07 · answer #2 · answered by Patient NightShade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's normal. I have some friends that I have been friends with for years, but they have some annoying habits and I'm pretty sure at some time or another I have been annoying to them.
But a REAL Friend doesn't judge you or be any less of a friend because of this.
2006-12-17 05:35:09 · answer #3 · answered by Cocoa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a break.. tell her you have some other stuff to do "to avoid her" I have a friend just like that.. Dont feel bad about it.. Some people do get annoying..
Tell her you have joined some classes or something!
Good luck!
2006-12-17 05:29:40 · answer #4 · answered by alice_nobleandkind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've got a friend like that who says really snippy things to me when we're in a group, but is really nice to me when we're alone. i just figured she just thinks she's being really funny and cool when she says and is really annoying. i would just kinda step away from her and leave the situation, then i'd try to talk to her later. and if you really want out of the friendship, just tell her. if she really liked you, she'll understand.
2006-12-17 05:46:14 · answer #5 · answered by polaris grl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you are talking about i have the same situation!! what u need to do girl is disappear off the face of this earth..what i mean is stop picking up her phone calls, dont answer the door, dont make plans with her or just cancel them when she makes the efforts in other words avoid her at all costs....she will get the hint and leave you the hell alone
2006-12-17 05:28:34 · answer #6 · answered by × 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Please do not destroy your friendship inclusive of her, she has thoughts. and that i'll relate to what your announcing once you're saying you do not opt for to spend time inclusive of her, yet you may heavily communicate inclusive of her. I witnessed someone being informed that their freaky..=( yet it is the way it is going to flow (more beneficial on Messenger or some thing, because she may cry and so she may experience more beneficial that no individual is staring at her..) and do not lie by means of the undeniable fact that way she wont understand what she's carried out incorrect, yet be rather diffused: You: hello! :D Her: hi! You: Um, I merely had to communicate with you about some thing yet please do not take it the incorrect way... Her: ok... You: properly i love you and each and everything yet I merely discover you rather stressful and style of peculiar. i'm rather no longer attempting to be propose or some thing, yet like you type of supply up me making buddies and that i opt for to be buddies with someone which will... enable me breathe you recognize? Her:...=/ You: we are nevertheless buddies! it truly is merely that I type of expertise annoyed plenty. in case you should substitute rather.. I propose i recognize your personality yet like close up somewhat:P Her: lol You: Bye now. i recognize you! (: I'l see you tomorroww. Her: ok:) she will be able to experience satisfied because she has already been in a issue which she has had no buddies, and she or he's acquainted with she has to modify for the more beneficial. If she be's all humorous about it then merely say instantly "i have tried to be effective to you and also you're merely rude... so do not carry with me anymore!" yet attempt to be as effective yet as honest as you may. and do not tell human beings (like in college and that) about it because then i'm particular they're going to tell human beings and then they're going to take the pi$$ out of her and that rather isn't effective. merely attempt to be in her shoes for somewhat, then flow ahead. desire all of it is going properly (=
2016-11-27 00:23:48 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't mess with a girl that knows your secrets. she'll tell everybody to hurt you like you've hurt her. it is perfectly normal to get annoyed with someone your around a lot. either you're stuck in this friendship or maybe she'll get a bf and ignore you.
2006-12-17 05:34:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first u need to ask her if u were nt frieds would she tell ur secrets. friends do get annoying but its just cuz u spend to much tm. spend sum tm apart b4 u grow out of eachother
2006-12-17 05:52:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say it's pretty normal. I had a friend like this....
Nobody's perfect. Maybe confront her about certian issues about your friendship that your having a problem with?
2006-12-17 05:29:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋