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2006-12-17 04:48:56 · 11 answers · asked by cssndrgary 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You shouldn't have to do anything about it. Find a new boyfriend.
2006-12-17 04:51:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The thought that somehow it is your problem to fix is a little disturbing.
What makes YOU think it's up to YOU to put up with ? There are lots of guys who don't have a temper problem & who would like a girlfriend.
Tempers don't necessarily get better over time - people get used to their behaviors then familiar with how they reacted in the past.
DUMP THIS GUY and AVOID temper-prone guys in the future.
Good Luck!
;-)
2006-12-17 05:00:29 · answer #2 · answered by WikiJo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't shout when he is shouting. Try to be mellow in your words. Let him finish what he has to say first before you speak. When it comes to dealing with other people, always remind him that not all people get pleased in how he acts.
Try giving him exercises on how to controll his temper. You can do it as a game. Tell him you'll play a game called "pissed me off." You'll have to tell him things that will get him humiliated or be rediculed. If he is able to control his self, he'll be rewarded (the prize would always depend on you, but it needs to be something interesting!).
Temper can be controlled. But it has to be practiced. Or else, he'll always be caught in a fight with other people.
2006-12-17 04:57:41 · answer #3 · answered by alvin 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get rid of him and if he's abusive to you find someone better. I know what I'm talking about. I was once married to a very abusive man. He abused my children and me for many years.I could not get out. I stayed partly because of the money and I did not work. I finally was able to be rid of the problem. I am now married to someone better.
2006-12-17 05:02:23 · answer #4 · answered by Nancy M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU can't do anything about your boyfriend's temper, only HE can. What you can do is tell him if he keep acting the fool, he will have to find another girlfriend. If he wants to keep you around, he'll have to learn to control that little monster inside of him.
2006-12-17 04:58:02 · answer #5 · answered by Kevman9999 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
another victim of society...
are you that much of a confirmative person that you have to have a "man???"
then get on yahoo and talk about him????
go get a life, quit wasting your time on this crap.
one question, how long did it take him to get into your pants??? less than 3 years, he doesnt respect you, he just with you for the time being. He gets mad because he really hates you, truth is told.
If you were more than a put out girl, you wouldnt have these problems,
2006-12-17 05:00:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to deal with someone else's temper. If hés mean to you, let him know you don't like it. If he refueses to change, you will have to move on.
2006-12-17 04:52:47 · answer #7 · answered by the Bruja is back 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Need more info, but as long as it isn't directed at you i would tell him to keep it in check! If it is directed at you.... get out!!
2006-12-17 04:53:12 · answer #8 · answered by Squishya 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
why do YOU have to do anything about it? if its a problem for you, then breakup...
if HE wants to do something about it, then thats a whole different story
2006-12-17 04:53:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
say bye bye...u cant help people unless they want to be helped...
2006-12-17 04:56:36 · answer #10 · answered by New York 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋