I'm 24 yrs old and I am 33 weeks pregnant. My husband and I have been married for only a years. We are both active duty military and I think he is cheating on me. We are stationed in two different states. I have no family here. I just recently came to this state, so it is really hard. Alls he wants to do is hurt me. He told me that the only reason he is still with me is because I am pregnant, and that he is not happy. I don't know how much else I can take. I haven't spoken to him in about 9 days. I refuse to call him because he never picks up the phone for me. Man does that hurt. I have given up everything for him. And the girl I think he is messing with used to come to my house and act as she was my friend. That hurts!!! I told him that I don't even want him in the delievery room when I have my baby. He called me childish and stupid. I have been through so much pain. It hurts to have to go out and shop for a baby by yourself when it takes two to make it.
2006-12-17 04:33:42 · 13 answers · asked by Diana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
oh i am so sorry, that guy is a jerk! God bless you and your baby and let everything work out for you!
2006-12-17 04:36:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am really sorry. Sometimes we do not understand why this type of thing happens,but they said that the pain has always a meaning and god will do what looks best. Maybe we can get it now,but we will one day. Do not call him, let him alone and enjoy your baby. You are blessed.There are many women who cant have one. Let time pass and you might change you rmind about him as well as letting himparticipate on the delivery room.
2006-12-17 12:38:19 · answer #2 · answered by confuse06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your story has touched my heart.The worse thing you could do is stay with him,he probably wouldn't make a good dad.Even by yourself,you and your baby would be much happier.He's not a man,so move on...be strong...get a divorce.There are plenty of good men out here who can treat you the way you should be treated.Good luck with your baby.
2006-12-17 12:43:31 · answer #3 · answered by rokkyroller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it is harder because you are expecting a child but I would move on. It does not seem like this relationship is going to work out. I know it must be really hard to be alone. Can you call any family to come and visit you? Good Luck hope all goes well
2006-12-17 12:37:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does not want to be with you..do not force the issue...you are young enough to find someone that will appreciate you...I would make him take care of the child through court ordered child support...but at the same time I would start the process of getting past him
2006-12-17 12:38:33 · answer #5 · answered by iamhhi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he doesn't want to take responsibility. Leave him and get child support. You can do better.
2006-12-17 12:38:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be independent like me im a single father bringing up my daughter on my own and dont reley on anyone else
2006-12-17 12:35:49 · answer #7 · answered by azflyboy6477 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump the bum u dont need that type of person around .it is not healthy for u or your baby.there are lots of better men out there
2006-12-17 12:39:09 · answer #8 · answered by dead guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
file for divorce. the military has a good benefits package for you and your child. good luck to you.
2006-12-17 12:47:19 · answer #9 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after hurting you this much i would find it hard to forgive him. have your baby and move on. try to forget him.
2006-12-17 12:37:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋