My husband and I are not getting along at all since the birth of our son.Our son is 2 weeks old.This is my second marriage and its in the ditch per say.He says he resents me for having the baby.I want to leave because I dont feel loved and I dont feel like if I stay its gonna do any good.I have already lost so much love for him.
2006-12-17 03:08:15 · 7 answers · asked by plumcouch30 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
oh...
im really sorry about your relationship.
you could try to talk to him, or go to marriage couseling.
it could help.
i hope things get better.
good luck ( ;
2006-12-17 03:11:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems marriage these days doesn't really mean anything. Although many years ago you would have been looked down on for not staying married, now things are different (and rightfully so I believe). So these days it seems you can just leave your husband (or him leave you) if you want.
I believe that there is not much point in getting married these days because it means so little (some may even say it means nothing). I`m not saying don't find partners, or don't have children, just don't bother getting married. My sister and her boyfriend lives together, have done so for many years, and neither feels like they need to get married. I don't see anything wrong with this, and noone looks down on my sister or her boyfriend for living this way. We are after all living in the 21st century now.
2006-12-17 11:18:06 · answer #2 · answered by MARTIN B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People think that a baby is all peaches and cream. When in fact it is a disaster on a marriage. Fathers feel neglected. And mothers are harmonal.
Obviously he's not ready to be a parent. Remind him of the fun it was when your son was being conceived 9 mos ago. If he's unable to accept responsibility, then he can find another place to live, while he continues to financially support his wife and son.
2006-12-17 11:25:19 · answer #3 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
damn thats harsh, is it that you were paying too much attention to the baby and not to him? but hell it his son right....and its only been two weeks
baby take some time off from that wedding separation or something, as a new mother you really dont need thatshit
he is being to harsh on u and your right, you dont need to take it
you have fallen out of love then whats there to stay for.
take you baby and leave for now, all that matyere right now is that new life that you have to take care of, think about whats best for him/her
2006-12-17 11:15:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and find out what exactly he means by resenting you for having the child.Isn't it his?Doesn't he want his family name carried on and does he have anything against kids?
Then ask him about your relationship and tell him that you want to leave.If you do get the b*****d to pay child support and get on with your life.It's pointless being in a relationship where communication,respect,love has blown out the window.
Goodluck...
2006-12-17 11:14:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to go! If not for your own sake and sanity, then for your baby. You say he resents you having the baby. I'd be concerned he might take his frustration out on the baby, and do something horrible. Get away! Go NOW.
2006-12-17 14:21:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave him
2006-12-17 11:10:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋