she says it does not fit. she will not resize it because she stated she wants it to stay in its original form to pass on to our daughter in the future!!! is the BS or what???
2006-12-17 02:59:31 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NO way, that is unacceptable!!! She is obviously not wanting ppl to see her wearing it. If she wanted to give it to your daughter in the future then resize it again if it doesnt fit!!! I have recently been proposed to , i havnt got the ring yet but when i do I am NEVER taking it off, its a symbol of love not something that may be worth something down the track, and if it gets a bit of wear and tear from years of wearing it then thats just a symbol of years of love and happiness!
2006-12-17 03:25:25 · answer #1 · answered by Krystle C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be true, to be honest I don't ever wear mine. My hands are always in water these days. I do so many dishes and it has never been a good fit, they have refused to take it up any more. They are just sure they will ruin it. (well duh if I can't wear it)
It circles my finger all the time and I have hung my finger in the handle on the door several times, it does hurt a lot when that happens. It is hard to enlarge a ring if not impossible.
She may very well mean it. I would not let it bother me. If she is going to cheat she will do it anyway and all she has to do is take the ring off when she is not at home.
It is not like it is welded on.The washing dishes thing was not meant in to be funny, but true many things I do in a day, require I remove the ring, particularly since it does not fit right. If I did not I would have lost it by now. Do not always believe a ring can be made larger, they can do small amounts of stretching on certain rings...............not all and not much call a jeweler if you don't believe that.No one knows what size your daughter will wear in yrs to come
2006-12-17 03:06:45 · answer #2 · answered by Eeyore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her bluff. Get a cheap but convincing Cubic Zirconia a size up... In a 'romantic' fashion, take a knee and place it on her finger (so you can see it fits smoothly and she can't BS out of it). See if she suddenly has an excuse for not wearing THAT ring. If she responds well, then she was after a new ring and you might want to invest on something nice. If she finds excuses, you need to add this up with your instinct and other hints or clues that indiscretions are occuring.
2006-12-17 04:27:36 · answer #3 · answered by mbh2k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say Bull sh_t! My wife did that also and then she asked me for a divorce because she had fallen out of love with me (more Bull sh_t). A solution for you is to (surprise) take her so that you know what she's thinking or contemplating is to take her to a jewelery store and tell her you want to buy her a new wedding ring, get yourself one to. Then tell her you want to marry her again to solidify your love for one another. If she doesn't come clean and spill her guts, you'll know she just doesn't like wearing it. The other side is she may think it's a wonderful gesture on your part and you score big. I know you may also think this is a big expense don't a divorce will cost you plenty this is a small price to pay if she still loves you. I think there is more to it than meets the eye. Merry Christmas!
2006-12-17 03:24:07 · answer #4 · answered by beamer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I didn't wear mine either for a long time. I didn't wear it for about 3 years because I was pregnant twice during that time and my fingers kept swelling. Maybe get her another piece of jewelry like a necklace or earrings that she can wear all the time (and is a better fit). Just remember that the ring is not like handcuffs - it is up to her if she wants to wear it or not. The more you push or make a big deal about it the less she'll want to wear it.
2006-12-17 03:38:07 · answer #5 · answered by jmc118 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe shes saying the truth. I wear my wedding ring but i still havent fixed a diamond that has fallen from one corner, bcoz i feel that it was destined to fall. A ring is something that always reminds you of your marraige & whom you are married to. Maybe she doesnt want to get if fixed by anyone else. Why dont ask her politely that you are giving the ring to a reliable friend of yours so that it could be fixed. (in 1 day)
2006-12-17 03:35:50 · answer #6 · answered by mustafa_burhani52 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she my want another ring for the holiday. The sentimental value of the first ring seems very important to her. Wanting to give it to her daughter is admirable as well as traditional. She may want to have a ring for herself after she passes it on. Good luck.
2006-12-17 03:10:51 · answer #7 · answered by kellyfl59 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can be the truth, but you really need to talk to her...but if that's really the case and she just won't resize the ring, maybe she can wear it as a necklace charm? i've seen some people do that.
2006-12-17 03:08:53 · answer #8 · answered by CutePanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want to bypass to marriage counciling or some thing. Im sorry if the ring doesnt in fantastic condition, get it in fantastic condition. If I were married, the ring would basically go away my finger to get wiped clean then it may be good decrease back on. If it isnt a actual affair its on its highway to being one.
2016-11-30 21:19:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be, but go out and get one similar but in a less carrat and tell her here now you can save that one for her and you can have this to wear. If she frowns at that then yes something is wrong, time for some investigative work! Good luck.
2006-12-17 03:04:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋