touching you and making love to you. Wound'nt you say he is up to something ??
2006-12-17 01:55:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not necessarily up to anything. Maybe there is something outside of your relationship that is causing this...he may be feeling stress from work, money problems, etc. Or could there be any relationship problems you may be having that he hasn't shared? Or maybe "the honeymoon is over."
2006-12-17 01:58:37 · answer #1 · answered by Lucky Lenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many times out of 10 do you turn him down? 9? If that's the case, he just entered the "depressed about sex frequency" zone. All husbands just throw in the towel after being told 'no' enough times. He got the message you were sending - doesn't that give you a sense of relief?
But yes, he might be looking elsewhere. Men don't get married to maintain their vigorous masturbation schedules. Frustrate him enough one way, and despite the ethics, he might look elsewhere.
Examine your behavior. Then ask him questions about why he stopped, listen to answers without interrupting, and then explain what you are thinking and why you behave the way you do. Perhaps you can work out a compromise that makes both parties happy -- maybe 2-3 times a week.
2006-12-17 02:03:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't necessarily mean he is up to something. How do you feel about just sitting down and talking with him and asking him if everything is okay? Maybe he just has a lot on his mind due to work, etc. Just ask him. I'm sure he'll appreciate you being honest with him. And remember, there are so many possibilities, so don't jump to any conclusions until you talk to him because you'll only drive yourself crazy, when in the end, it could end up being nothing at all. Just talk to him.
2006-12-17 02:07:41 · answer #3 · answered by milly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first consider his age, if he is young, it will stop over time. if he is in his 40-50's then maybe a mid life crisis. or maybe he just love you and wants to be with you all the time, but if it is a problem, talk to him, but do it in a nice way, women incorporate holding, snuggling with love and security, men on the other hand need sex to fell loved, and that evrything is ok, does he ask you if you are ok all the time? well if so, he is insecure about himself, and loosing you, but try to make him feel better.
2006-12-17 02:00:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe there is somethign which is bothering you.
It's best to talk to him, ask if theres something bothering him.
Also make your relationship more interesting and fun.. like join dance classes together or hit the gym together...
Hopefully theres nothing serious..
2006-12-17 02:05:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would think he was up to something, unless you rejected him alot of the time when he made advances to you, then I would think he is tired of rejection, so if its not that way, then I would keep a close eye on him, and not make an issue out of it but just watch, that way he will let his guard down if he is up to something, you will find out soon enough.
2006-12-17 01:59:35 · answer #6 · answered by jeannie64 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Maybe he just got tired chasing your @$$.
You should try flipping it and be all over him for a change.
I'll bet anything he won't turn you down and it will probly spark that old flame.
2006-12-17 02:01:02 · answer #7 · answered by myk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends....how much was I pushing him away? If it was alot, he may have become discouraged to keep trying.
Depends....what about his diet? Certain foods can greatly affect men testosterone levels.
Remember, men don't do subtle, when in doubt ask.
2006-12-17 02:32:27 · answer #8 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has found someone else to satisfy his needs. He will probably lie about it at first, and then he will blame you, saying that it was because you wouldn't let him have you. Typical pattern.
2006-12-17 02:00:24 · answer #9 · answered by ramman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends, did you turn his advances down at all, he could have gave up on trying, or he could be tired or possible something is going on. you need too just come out and ask him, you will learn more info than you have now.
2006-12-17 02:00:51 · answer #10 · answered by wiseguyof faith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋