She was in these victoria's secret little panties and bra set, and he was in boxers. The both looked as tho they meant for what they were wearing to be seen by the other.
His hand is on her in a way that is not "normal". Very inappropiately placed.
Should I wake him and tell him he should take her home?? Or should she stay and be a part of the discussion??
Will she be all embarassed cuz she is paractically naked?? Will he be mad or worried about how my husband and I will react??
Should I quietly wake my son and tell him to wake his g/f or just wake them both at once by freaking them out?? they are both 16
I am pretty sure they used protection cuz her gymnastics coach makes her take the pill because then she never misses practice b/c of cramps.
2006-12-17 01:49:58 · 13 answers · asked by Sakura 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Should I wake him and tell him to wake her or wake her and freak her out?? My hubby wants to put on some pjs, wake her and let her sleep in our bed and then he wants to climb in my sons bed and wait for him to wake up. Should he??
2006-12-17 02:01:32 · update #1
The same thing happened to me with my son. I woke them at the same time. She was freaked out of course. (Embarrassed) I told him to take her home and I talked to him when he got back. She didn't come back to my house for almost a month. My son told her about how I felt and it hasn't happened (in my home) since. I guess it just depends on your relationship with your son and what point you want to get across.
2006-12-17 01:57:17 · answer #1 · answered by Texas Pineknot 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I would make noise to wake them both and then after the initial embarrassment wore off I would talk to both of them calmly about what kind of behavior I expect in my house and what I expect from both of them. Hopefully you have already talked to your son aobut sex. Don't get mad, or forbid them to do it again, that will just make it worse and possibly cause resentment. Hopefully they did use good judgement and used protection.
2006-12-17 01:57:51 · answer #2 · answered by kerijeanbean 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems like you already missed the action so there's nothing you can do about it right now. Both of them of course would be very embarrased and ashmed of themselves if they knew they were caught so just let them sleep, and do the growling about it in the morning with just your son.
2006-12-17 04:15:24 · answer #3 · answered by missinmybaby 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm fairly sure i read a posting exactly the same as this except from the "Girls" point of view. Leave them alone. thats it. end of story.
2006-12-18 01:22:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just let them be and call her mom tonight. After a talk with her mom, talk to your som about protection!!
2006-12-18 11:47:49 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Hollister♥ 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
let them be and when he wakes up talk to him about last night
2006-12-17 03:22:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
they are both 16 and experimenting. let them be. if the subject is ever brought up by your son then talk to him.
2006-12-17 03:08:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
leave them alone...
close his bedroom door and have a quick talk to him tonight to make sure he is using protection
2006-12-17 04:39:55 · answer #8 · answered by ♥sweet♥ 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
as long as they have shorts or underwear/panties off just make sure they dont do it again it could get serious
2006-12-17 06:54:23 · answer #9 · answered by CATHY H 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Claudia did the right thing
2006-12-17 05:29:33 · answer #10 · answered by Me 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋