e feeling of detesting myself is getting stronger
2006-12-17 01:39:06 · 15 answers · asked by MGJ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You didn't do anything for you to start to detest yourself. Try to do other things to occupy your time. Don't think about the divorce. Go to the beach or a park. Paint. do something productive with your time so you don't just wallow in self pity. Be strong. Look at the divorce as a new door being opened in your like, start over.
2006-12-17 01:42:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes two make a marriage, it takes two to make a divorce.
Regardless of fault, if there was any particular thing that happened to place blame, two people can work things out if they want too. But if BOTH aren't willing then there is no way anyone can find fault.
Wounds will heal, sadness will eventually dissipate. Key is to get involved in activities, hobbies, things you would enjoy. Sitting and stewing over what went wrong and placing blame will never allow yourself to heal.
2006-12-17 02:25:04 · answer #2 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are facing divorce it means you got married to the wrong person. You should feel happy that you are getting rid of your husband / wife who doesn love you and care for you. Dont imagine about what the relatives and your friends may think and talk in your back. Learn to live for yourself and be cheerful. Do every thing you wanted to do while you were married and could not do. Divorce is a painful process but you will get over it soon. New year will bring you lot of happiness. Look forward dont look back. Try meditation it is wonderful to lessen frustration.
2006-12-17 01:46:49 · answer #3 · answered by rams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop with that already. Divorce happens to the best of us. There is such a thing as rebuilding your life into something wonderful and knowing that you did it all by yourself. Just when you think people don't want to get to know the real you, you find out they do.
2006-12-17 02:13:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try focus on the future, what are you going to do, new plans, new house, new enviornment, more friends, new friends, different lifestyle, something you would like to do but did not have the time or permission to do previously?
There are so much to think abt than to destest yrself, divorce is not the end, it's just another chapter of your life.
*If you have kids, you can call HELP service centre, this is where the single parents do their sharing & caring.
2006-12-17 19:21:39 · answer #5 · answered by Rootbeer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All your feeling is depression becasue you can't figure out why your getting one. But just realize the reason for what happened and remember your not dammaged goods, it's that he couldn't handle what he had at home. But feeling bad is not going to help. Just remember that you were great with him but he went stupid and just don't worry. IF you need to talk or chat just IM me or e-mail me.
2006-12-17 01:43:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going through a divorce also.....And as Kramer says....".I AM OUT THERE AND LOVIN IT"......Don't feel like rejected goods...use this a experience on what you want in your next relationship.Life is always about learning from your past.Good luck in all you do.
2006-12-17 06:42:12 · answer #7 · answered by crazycul1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It usually takes two to tango and sometimes one finds someone else and then tries to blame the other. Not fair but that it is life. I have been watching my son who loves ans adores his wife beyond the stars be rejected by her and I have held him why he cries and he has done nothing but work hard at whatever jobs he can get and bouhgt her gifts. It is time to get up and go out and start over. Donot let one person ruin the rest of your life. Just be careful that you are not on the rebound and get hurt again. Look inside yourself for whatever you may have done and try to not do that again. Smile the world will smile with you. God Bless
2006-12-17 02:25:22 · answer #8 · answered by wolfy1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rejected.. goods?
well first off, i'm sorry about your divorce. i'm only 15, and your probably not gonna care about what i'm about to say but seriously. you need to think more.. positive.. hahaha. i may not know but about love, but i know in life, when one door closes another one opens.
you know that song "in my mind" by.. heather.. somthing. hahah. but in it it was like
" they say that if you lost something you got to let it go.. and if it comes back then it means so much more.. but if it never does. .at least you should know.. that it was something you have to go through to grow."
ithere was this other famous quote like that.
but seriously man, chin up. your not rejected goods. that girl just doesn't know what shes gonna miss. and only God knows.. if she'll be back.
2006-12-17 01:45:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek out some counseling. Don't allow yourself to fall into a rut of thinking you are not good enough or unworthy of love. We are all worthy, and obviously their was something there at one time, you got married. God bless****
2006-12-17 01:44:02 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋