2006-12-17 01:38:21 · 20 answers · asked by CandU 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Do what any parent would do,kick his A$$ then kick hers
2006-12-17 01:42:28 · answer #1 · answered by Dylan aka Dilly 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ask yourself... why is she SNEAKING?? I always lied to my parents even about things that weren't that big of a deal because I was scared of them and how they would react.
It's normal for middle school girls to like older boys.. 13 year old boys are not maturing as fast. I think every girl goes through this.
If you want her to be honest with you, let her know it is ok to be honest. Why don't you try meeting this boy? It is possible that he really likes your daughter and enjoys her company and is not just seeking a sex partner. talk to her...
2006-12-17 10:25:15 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs.Neville 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well my wife would remove a few parts from the boy if she caught them but I like one idea better. I would insist he marry her and get a job. I would let him know that if he gets her pregnant it's either jail or job to raise his baby because you won't raise his baby. I would love your daughter because she is yours but her choices are not good right now and this young man is using his UMMM to think with not his brain if he even has one doing this. I would have to wonder if he is in special ed due to his lack of thinking. Or maybe it's possible he is using the wrong head to think with. As a father I would be angry with both of them but I would just let him make a choice is it worth jail or will he accept responsibility for his actions, Jail usually scares them because if he is convicted in most states they are considered a Sexual Predator or Offender and will have to register.
2006-12-18 21:54:38 · answer #3 · answered by Georgia Preacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop her in her tracks because I was 13 and you were too. You already know the outcome. If she is sneaking she is having sex with him and if you don't stop it do the safe thing for yourself and her and put that a** on birth control. You may say you are oking it for her to have sex but not really you just protecting her from the world of motherhood at a young age. I wasn't sexually active at 13 but my mom didn't want me to be a mom so at 14 she told me you can either put yourself on it or get out of my house cause I am to young to be a grandmother. I am proud of her and myself because she wanted to protect me. I am now 22 and having my first child please don't let your daughter fall victim the sterotype of being a young mother at such a young age. Please just think about it and it will be worth it in the long run trust me.
Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-12-17 09:48:52 · answer #4 · answered by blaqie2284 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
have a talk with her and get to know the boy.Keep an eye one them.Not all 16 year old boys are like 'that'.I'm a 13 year old girl myself and your child is probably mature enough to have a b/f if he's 16.But still if things get out of hand talk to her and him both.
2006-12-17 14:45:41 · answer #5 · answered by Shelby Victoria 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if he sniffs around any more youll cut of his ba**s
or you could politely remind him that the legal age is 16 and that you will report a rape if your daughter is led astray.
2006-12-17 09:41:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
put her on birth control, it may not be your first choice but its better than a pregnant 13 yr old!
2006-12-17 09:45:12 · answer #7 · answered by benjamin b 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Find out if theyve done anything like sexually.....if they havent then just let them have fun together but if they have then i would end it just to be safe
2006-12-17 09:46:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If they are sneaking around, go and find them and bring them to a carnival!!!!!!Then, you leave them be forever.
2006-12-17 14:08:33 · answer #9 · answered by Swarna 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to her. Maybe find out where they are going and "coincidently" show up.
2006-12-17 13:19:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋