A very monogamous guy 19 and a very promiscuous girl 24 share a summer of high adventure and hit it off, from the start she declares that she is non monogamous. They have a long distance relationship for three years, both 'date' when not together. Then they plan a new adventure, leave the country and live together and she stays monogamous for a year.
She never promises to be faithful and wishes it were an open relationship but knows better than anyone how the guy will feel if she cheats. She says over and over he is the love of her life and then has a one nighter with someone she has no intention of having a relationship with admits what happened right away.
The guy coldly dumps her, never speaks to her agian.
Is there a right and wrong person? or was this just a train wreck waiting to happen?
Turns out she was the love of my life too.
2006-12-17 01:12:46 · 2 answers · asked by tenbadthings 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Do you realize that it is much too early in the morning for asking long complicated questions? You had your Starbucks today, huh?
Well, what I think is, with matters of the heart, you never know HOW that thing is going to make you feel until it comes down to the nitty gritty and stuff starts to happen. You can SAY what you're going to do all day, but when faced with heartbreak all that goes out of the window.
So of course she is wrong, but he wasted a whole lot of breath and time with her when she said what she was all along. It's like the story of the woman who saved the snakes life and then befriended him only to later be bitten and soon die. He told her, "You knew I was a snake all along."
So it's not a question of right or wrong, really, but more one of foolish and foolisher.
I made up a word, see "foolisher." See, I had my Starbucks, too.
2006-12-17 01:20:48 · answer #1 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a ho is a ho is a ho. When she is "being faithful", she is just on break. Sooner or later, typical behavior will re-emerge--kinda like that old story about the turtle who gives a snake a ride across the river, and the snake bites him anyway.
Sorry, I know how it feels...pick up the pieces and move on.
2006-12-17 09:25:03 · answer #2 · answered by silentnonrev 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋